Not everyone enjoys motherhood and fatherhood. Yes, even those parents who have been preparing for the appearance of a baby for a long time, and sincerely love their little man, sometimes have a hard time. And strange feelings arise, as if they regret his birth. In fact, many regret it, but only a few are able to admit it out loud.
Being a parent is very difficult, and in fact, no one knows how and what to do right. In addition, the "profession" is ungrateful, you should not expect a reward, because children usually think only about the realization of their own needs, and not about yours! Not a single child during a tantrum will suddenly stop and say: "Mom, Dad, I love you, I want you to know that I appreciate you for everything you do for me!" There will be no such thing!
Being a parent is a real stress, it is ungrateful, it is difficult, considering that you simply have to become an expert in this matter from the very first day. Not everyone can admit that they regretted having children. Not so that: “I'd better not give birth to you,” etc., but just say that all this is difficult. But I have confessions of daredevils who decided to share with others all that boiled.
They said why they regret having children!
“As soon as I became a mother, I immediately regretted it. My life has completely changed. I was completely lost, I used to have me, and now I have a child. I lost my personality, now my job is to see that the child is nourished, alive, healthy, so that he becomes a human being. And I am the one I used to be no more! "
“I do not regret the child itself, but I regretted my decision to have him 100 times. And to be precise, I regretted that I decided to have a baby with a specific person. My relationship with him was not the best, which affected our child "
“After giving birth, I got a terrible depression. And the problem is that none of the relatives and friends understood this. Even having a medical diagnosis, I continued to hear from them that a child is a gift from the Universe and that he is the center of everything! "
“Even if my son becomes a good person, noble and successful, even if I did everything right in my upbringing, I still feel guilty that I regretted becoming a mother all my life! As it turned out, all these Internet affection for pink cheeks and clean asses is window dressing, in fact, everything is very difficult, and still very expensive! "
“I am very sorry that I gave birth to a child from the wrong person. After all, this is the most important thing - to be ready to have a child. If a man is not ready for this, if he does not want this, then it is better not to take an important step in life. This is how it worked out for me, and I really regret it... "
“At first I didn't want children at all, but then something clicked and I realized that I also want to become a mother. Moreover, I decided that I would not marry, and that I myself want to raise a baby. Well, sort of like giving birth to yourself. She gave birth and regretted it a hundred times. I have to completely deal with raising my daughter myself, I work several jobs, and I try to maintain a positive attitude. At night, I cry with bitter tears, because everything in the house rests on me. And I myself wanted it. The child's father occasionally takes him to his place, throws up money, but we have nothing with him. If I could go back in time, I would never agree to become a single mother! "
“I simply wanted to keep the man as a child. Of course, I also wanted to become a mother, but my boyfriend and I had a tense relationship, and I decided to tie him to myself by the birth of a baby. And, as often happens, nothing worked for me. Now I am alone, and it is very difficult for me to pull everything on myself, there is no psychological or physical help! "
“I think I wanted a family and children too early. When she got pregnant, she studied in medicine, dreamed of becoming a doctor. But the pregnancy was very difficult, so all I took out was to become a nurse. I am very sorry that I could not realize my dream... "
Are you ready to admit that you regretted becoming a parent?
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