There are things that take away all of a person's strength and do not allow them to exist normally. What is this? Who are our enemies? It's time to know them in person, so that you can overcome them in time!
Gossip
Any gossip, slander of people and any unkind condemnation of others is your # 1 enemy. Back in the old days, everyone like that was called hula. For example, if I ask you: when did you think badly of someone around you? It's hard to answer that, isn't it? Then the question is: how long have they offended you, talked badly about you, insulted you? You will probably remember right away, because the resentment hurt you! So, when this very blasphemy goes to our address, we always understand this, but, unfortunately, we often do not perceive when we behave like others.
Resentment
Resentment was even earlier called hidden revenge. Think for yourself, what are you giving to yourself if you hold a grudge against a person? You only harass yourself, make yourself worse. But why revenge? And because what is the unwillingness to make peace because of resentment is not revenge? Yes, we are all living people and it hurts and hurts us. This is how you reason when you are offended and some third person says that it's time for you to put up? Likely, like this: "Why am I going to put up, it hurt me!". Well, isn't that right, isn't it? It is doubly difficult when you have a grudge against a person with whom you live under the same roof, for example, with your husband. And imagine that your children "bathe" in all this horror!
Excuses
An excuse is when you start explaining to everyone why you did it the way you did. Firstly, you are not obliged to report anything to anyone, and, secondly, by making excuses, you seem to expose someone to blame - circumstances, people, etc. For example, here are some more questions for you! Why can't you get along with your parents? Why can't you build a career or why can't you save money? What are the excuses and excuses? A person can justify himself a hundred times a day. In the old days, justification was called a slander, and it was even considered damage! And gossip is damage, and resentment is also damage!
Revenge
Have you ever had such a thing when you suddenly find out that a person who once hurt you is now suffering himself? If so, then there is nothing good about it. Even if you didn't even openly take revenge, you waited until the person felt bad, you remembered the pain, you were offended. And revenge is also considered when, let's say, something happened to you, but your acquaintances do not, and you say something like: "They would be so, I would see how they lived." These are words of revenge, and words are destructive and can materialize.
Laziness
And another enemy of man is laziness. All of us are sometimes lazy, saying: "I'd rather not do anything." We are lazy for a day or two, and then it becomes a habit. And water does not flow under a lying stone. With our laziness, we make it so that we waste a lot of opportunities and a lot of time. Laziness can and should be fought, rather than looking for an excuse.
How all these "enemies" are connected with each other! They wrote about them in ancient manuscripts and all this was called real damage. But for many, they are familiar character traits! Our ancestors said that these unpleasant things can only be replaced by movement. You need to move, instead of sitting there, getting angry, taking offense at someone, wanting evil and making excuses.
That's the whole secret, once you get rid of these five things, your life is bound to get better! Don't give up, fight!
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