Who do women represent when they say the word "mistress"? I am sure that many people have an association that this is certainly a young and impudent girl who is not afraid of anything, takes from life everything that lies badly... and is well worth it.
Of course, there are still twenty-year-old predators with long legs and in mini-skirts, but only now they are very much pressed by more interesting types of mistresses. If you think that this information does not concern you, I would not rush to such conclusions. Yes, even if you are confident in your partner, you should never give up. Do you think that he definitely does not have a mistress, because he is surrounded only by adults struck by experience, wise ladies? But after all, not every woman wants to break up a family by all means and jump out to marry a man. Many are satisfied with the status of a mistress, many only need attention and intimacy, and no love. So, meet, here they are, modern mistresses!
Having looked at the experience of my friends and acquaintances, I was able to make a certain collective image of a modern lover. Here she is! She is a little over 40, she is divorced, she has teenage children or has long been grown up. She is self-sufficient, firmly on her feet, and she looks perfect. She is in the very juice, from her "reeks" of sex. But, most importantly, she doesn't want to get married, she doesn't want to get married!
In the past, she had a long, boring marriage, which was accompanied by the service of her husband and household chores. Now she wants spontaneity, ease, experimentation. Her sexuality was revealed quite late, after the divorce. Previously, she condemned mistresses, now she is a mistress herself, and this does not jar her in the least. She comes off to the fullest, she likes easy meetings without any obligations. She hates the word "married" because she associates it with cutlets, cabbage rolls and borscht. This word gives her a nervous tic.
She does not choose a man with wealth or just not to be lonely. She chooses him in body and soul. So do not think that only rich peasants have mistresses. Failure men are also at gunpoint. And it's time for their spouses to stop scaring their husbands with their disheveled unkempt appearance, old dressing gown and denial of sex!
The modern lover has many advantages. Firstly, she herself is not married, secondly, she has grown-up children, thirdly, she is not going to get married, fourthly, she does not need money, fifthly, she is experienced in life and in bed. It seems that there are a lot of these advantages, all of them can not be counted. But the most important thing is that a woman over 40 is not going down the aisle, while a young woman will sooner or later begin to hint at this to her lover. The modern mistress realized all these women's wishlist many years ago, received it, “floated”, and reached a new level.
And one more trump card in the sleeve of a modern mistress. She has an increased interest in sex, she is ready to experiment, and she will never fake an orgasm! This is very captivating for men. While their wives again arrange a sexual boycott, nag them on business and without, wait, when they "will be given" a salary and hint at another baby, modern lovers appear to be the complete opposite, sweetness and magnet!
So, dear women, if you are looking for a mistress of your husband among young beauties with the image of "Barbie", but you do not succeed, then most likely all your efforts are in vain. Pay attention to mature, showy ladies. By the way, the likelihood that it is a woman of mature age who can become a permanent mistress of a man than a young "steal" is much higher!
These are they, modern mistresses!
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