Alexey was sitting with his lady of the heart in a summer cafe. The music was playing, the laughter of the same young couples was heard all around. Alexey and Dina drank champagne. The guy really liked Dina, it was interesting to communicate with her, she was very good people, and she was also beautiful. While Alexey was looking at her and thinking about all this, the girl suddenly said: "Order more champagne!" And Alexei darkened. No, he had some champagne. But he also had to keep for lunch at the institute, and then for a beer with friends. Alexey began to dissuade, like, maybe that's enough already. Dina understood everything, looked contemptuously at her boyfriend, and then called the waiter, ordered champagne, and said that she would pay herself.
Alexei remembers that look even now after many years. By the way, he didn't have a good relationship with that girl. Of course, it was a pity, because she suited him by all criteria, but he did not suit her. Because he regretted money for her, really regretted it, and he himself understood it. He was ashamed. Many years passed, and he was still ashamed in front of Dina, even though their paths diverged a long time ago.
For many years, Alexei struggled with his greed. Of course, everything could be explained. His childhood was poor, he had to wear the same shoes for several years, sweets at home were only for the new year and for his birthday. Sometimes it fell from friends in the form of caramel "Barberry" or toffee. This Soviet impoverished childhood ruined Alexei. At first he realized that he needed to be frugal, and then he turned greedy.
Male greed is the most terrible disease, the most terrible vice. She's a woman and should be a little tight-fisted, stingy, she should count money. And a man... confidence and carelessness should come from him! Whether he has money or not, he must always be confident in himself. And the lack of money is not a reason for greed, but a motivation for action! If they are not there, you need to work!
And in no case should a man spare money for his woman, for his children. Alexey realized this after many years. It was his gesture that pushed Dinah away from him. And a couple of times he found himself in a similar situation with other women. And the point was not that they all needed money from him, but precisely in greed, which could be seen with the naked eye.
Alexei recently met a good girl. No, she's not a spender, and she never pulled money out of him. He himself always spends the maximum on it. And somehow they came to a good restaurant. The girl had never been like that, she rolled her eyes, seeing the huge prices on the menu. And Alexey said that she can order whatever she wants. Having drunk expensive wine, the girl sold out in earnest, and ordered everything, ordered, and Alexey smiled silently. Even then, he realized that he simply did not have enough money to pay for the order. When the bill was brought, Alexey said that he needed to call, and she went to talk to the waiter. Fortunately, he turned out to be a good man, and took a watch for a time as payment. The next day, Alexei took his watch and paid. And the girl didn’t know anything, she didn’t need to know anything, these are not her problems!
A man should make big gestures. If he is greedy, then he does not love his woman. The most important thing is to live as if you have heaps of money. Yes exactly! A man may not understand anything in plumbing work, not be able to cook pilaf, be unsportsmanlike, even overweight. But the only drawback that cannot be forgiven him is greed!
Run from the greedy men, they are not worthy of your attention!
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