Adolescent development: is it possible to prepare for the child's parents

Can you prepare for an important stage in your child's life?

Psychologists note that conflicts between parents and teenagers begin due to the fact that the latter change quickly, and mom and dad simply do not have time to adapt to the fact that their child is no longer small, requires independence and learns the world.

How can parents change?

1. Accept secrets in your teen's life.

2. Learn to go into the shadows if the child needs personal space.

3. Observe remotely, giving the baby the necessary experience.

During adolescence, an important and obligatory process of separation of the child takes place, that is, his separation from his parents.

Success in adulthood depends a lot on the experience a child gets during puberty.

Parents, as a rule, are painful about the fact that the child already needs their love less than before, but this is also normal.

But the need for support remains.

Try to tell your teen more often that you believe in him, support positive thinking, fight with complexes, but do not overload. It is natural for a teenager to take into account, first of all, the opinion of his peers, but the mother should stay there every day.

4. Observe boundaries, do not enter the room without knocking.

Teenagers learn not only the world, but also themselves, their sexuality. The worst thing a parent can do is shame a teenager for being interested in the topic. Of course, not everyone will come to their parents and ask everything that interests him about sex, but you can show understanding, this is also very important.

5. Correctly react to aggression.

Puberty is closely related to the aggressive attacks of the child. Unfortunately, extinguishing it is also not an option, if the child gets used to keeping everything to himself, in the future he may behave aggressively towards other people.

Or in relation to yourself.

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