Relationships are tricky. And they tend to end sometimes for one reason or another. Just yesterday you were very happy together, but today you are no more, and you know that nothing will happen between you. You have lost all hope that something can change, that you will be together again, but is it really so? You can tell yourself and everyone around that you are not expecting anything, that you are moving on, you can even think so. But you can still subconsciously wait for it.
Here are signs that you are still waiting for your ex.
You are in doubt if you should accept offers from other men
It’s as if you’re scared to start a relationship with men, because deep down you hope that there is a temporary quarrel between you and your partner, a temporary expense, and it will come back to you. But it's worth thinking about the fact that if he does absolutely nothing for you to be together again, why do you limit yourself in life?
You specifically leave yourself free evenings
We can say that you leave almost all your evenings free. Because you are still waiting for him to call you and offer to meet. You already think that you are not expecting it, but free evenings have become your habit. You just sit at home, at the parade, always ready to meet him.
You constantly hold the phone in your hands without letting go
You are just very afraid to miss a text message or a call from him. Every time you receive a notification on your phone, you look hopefully, thinking, maybe it's him. You haven't even changed his name on the phone, because you are waiting for everything to return to its place.
Are you still wearing your wedding ring
Well, or they deliberately put a ring on the ring finger to show everyone their status, which in fact does not exist. Thus, you want to discourage all suitors from yourself, wanting to "save" yourself for the ex. And you tell your acquaintances that you just haven't gotten off the habit of wearing the ring, or that you are not yet ready to create a new relationship.
You lie to everyone that you have a boyfriend
In order not to enter into a new relationship or in order not to look funny among your busy girlfriends, you begin to lie that you have a boyfriend, you just are not in a serious relationship with him yet. In fact, you're just lying, continuing to think about your ex.
You walk to his favorite places
You deliberately gain in time when he has to leave work, wait for him where he often walks or runs in the morning. You are trying to make your chance meeting happen. Here is the answer, why are you doing this?
You are afraid that your ex will see you with your friend.
You try to avoid all men, even if they are best friends, classmates, neighbors. Because you are afraid that your ex will see you with some man and will not want to reconnect with you. Does he want it now?
Relationship is a complex thing, and a person, in principle, is a very complex being. Especially women. They invent anything for themselves, and then cry bitter tears. Maybe stop torturing yourself? You are wasting yourself, your nerves, strength, time, your years. Do you think too much of him? Are you giving him too much power?
That's how it turns out. When a man and a woman part, the man considers himself free, calmly meets the ladies, lives a full life, and the woman is still waiting, hoping that the ex will return to her arms. Unfair, strange and stupid ...
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