Raising children is a very difficult and painstaking job, especially if you have girls growing up. I would like the child to grow up independent, to become a full-fledged person, to be educated, to behave culturally. And, of course, no matter how hard you try to raise your lady daughter, sooner or later adolescence will come, and all this may simply collapse. It is hard, difficult, sometimes there is no strength and patience for proper upbringing.
Here are tips collected from women raising girls. I hope they will help you in raising your daughter.
Do not forbid to look into your cosmetic bag from time to time.
The girls see their mother putting on makeup, and they become interested in cosmetics. They start asking mom for lipstick, eyeshadows, and more. At first it’s a common pastime for them, then they themselves begin to paint. Every girl has a desire to be like a mother. Only over time is it worth teaching your daughter that the less cosmetics, the better.
Talk about your period
It is embarrassing for someone to talk about it, but you yourself understand that it needs to be done! It is your job to reveal to your child the whole truth about his body. And you need to prepare for this as early as possible, so that later the daughter is not afraid, does not hesitate to ask questions, and be prepared.
Keep your daughter's childhood as long as possible
Try not to let the adult world into your daughter's carefree childhood for a longer time. Childhood is so cool! Take your time with fancy clothes, cosmetics and cell phones. Everything has its time!
Maintain your daughter's relationship with dad
First, you yourself must have a good relationship with the child's father. In no case do not humiliate or insult him in front of his daughter. Secondly, it is worth trying so that dad and daughter have a good relationship. For her, he becomes an example of the right man. It is in his image that she will choose her groom. If there is a warm relationship between the daughter and the father, she will not give her heart to the first one that comes along.
Teach financial literacy
Your daughter should understand that money is not easy to come by, so you need to spend it wisely. Let her know that the time will come, and she will earn for herself, not depending on anyone, and she will have to competently manage her funds.
Talk carefully to your daughter about your figure.
How your daughter will perceive her figure in the future depends only on you. It is you who make up the ideals of female beauty in her head. Reassure your daughter that her body is the correct size. Do not focus on the lack of shape or extra pounds.
Become a protection for your daughter, and teach her to defend herself
Your daughter should know that she can always come to you with her problems, rely on you, hope for help in solving problems. But it is worth teaching her that she tries to cope with the problem herself first, before going to you.
Praise your daughter for her character.
Of course, the girl needs to be told that she is beautiful, but she should also know that there is something else besides good looks. Tell her that she is kind, brave, smart, because these things will not disappear over time, unlike her appearance.
Teach her to respect people.
Explain that each person has their own personal boundaries. Show by example that others need to be treated with respect and patience. A person's words will someday be forgotten, but actions will always be remembered.
Follow your dreams
If you follow your dreams, then your daughter will believe in her own dreams, she will strive for them, she will be confident and persistent. Do what you love and show it to your daughter. Let her know that you have some desires and goals.
Teach prudence for boys
Let the girl remember what to use in relationships with boys: intuition, intelligence and trust in her own feelings.
Teach It to Be Appreciated
Be sure to talk to your daughter about relationships with people. Talk about what others should see in it. Raise her to be smart, courteous, respectful, and appreciated.
Do you have anything to add to this list of tips?
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