The relationship seems to be excellent, but why then did he decide to leave? In fact, the reasons can be different, let's look at them.
Before delving into the reasons, I want you not to harass and blame yourself for absolutely everything. It's not necessarily you!
Why did he leave?
He has lost interest in you
This does not mean that you suddenly changed and began to displease him in some way. Either you initially did not arouse proper interest in him, but were comfortable for him. Or this interest was gradually lost in him, and in this case he realized that he did not want to live with you and, most likely, the realization came with the appearance of another woman next to him.
You loaded it up with problems
The relationship should be easy and comfortable, and the woman should evoke positive feelings. Apparently, you "overloaded" the man with responsibilities and demands, he listened to your claims for hours, and could no longer stand it.
You were disrespectful to him
They took him for granted, never thanked him for anything, allowed themselves to offend him, humiliate him, or mocked him with hints, separately uttered by bitchy phrases. Or maybe they discussed it with others, ridiculed it, etc.
You only blamed and demanded
A man doesn't owe you anything, it's stupid to think so. Unfortunately, now many are raising girls like that, claiming that a man should provide for the family, give gifts, speak compliments, helping around the house, etc. It turns out that a man should, you can demand and blame him when he does not do what must.
The man felt unnecessary
Here, the man owes you everything. Did you tell him that you love him, did you compliment him, thank him for his help? You began to decide everything yourself, not taking into account his opinion. And the man just felt unnecessary.
The man felt you were using him
If a woman does not need the man himself, but the conveniences that can be obtained at his expense, then this is very well felt. And the disappointment that arose with the realization that you are needed only for something, and you yourself do not represent any importance and value for a person, leads precisely to a break in relations.
Female infidelity
Yes, not only men cheat, women can go for it too. We will not delve into the reasons, but this is one of the reasons that a man leaves the relationship.
A woman earns more than a man
A man by nature wants to always and in everything to be the first. If he is not a gigolo, then he will be uncomfortable living with a woman whose earnings are higher. No, many agree with this, but the majority have complexes, their pride hurts, and scandals begin. A man is faced with a choice: to maintain self-respect or relationship. And he chooses the first. In such a situation, only a wise woman and a self-sufficient man are able to maintain their union.
The woman does not know how to behave
A lot can be added to this point. A woman has bad habits, behaves vulgarly, dishonors a man with ridiculous questions, does not deal with children - the list goes on for a long time.
A man is forced to do what he is not ready for.
For example, a woman's desire to get married can generally scare a man away. Or the man may not be ready to have a baby. This is a crucial step.
He found another
Yes, that's so commonplace. Most often, a man leaves when he finds the woman he considers the best match for himself. And then you can't do anything.
He is tired of your drama
You often called him, asked about what he was doing, with whom you met, you were jealous of every pillar, expressed your opinion, but he was not taken into account at all. You underestimated him, did not support his goals. You turned out to be a toxic, manipulative woman, and he couldn't take it anymore. Or is it toxic? You have low self-esteem and you allowed him to manipulate you, and he eventually stopped appreciating you as a person. Or maybe you have constant tantrums out of the blue, and you nagged him, made scandals?
He is not mature
And it also happens that it turns out that a man and a woman are at different stages of maturity. And it's not about age, but about maturity, values, goals. If all this is different, then you will definitely not be able to be together.
This is how everything is just and complicated at the same time ...
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