Relationships always need to be nourished. You cannot turn them into monotonous, habit, routine. Today I want to recommend one such option to women. If you want a man to start to get bored, give him a test of silence!
It doesn't matter if it's your boyfriend, husband, lover, ex, or just the man you like. Silence is a great tactic to warm up his interest in yourself.
Silence will help you, but one more thing is very important. It is important how you behave and what you do during this silence. If you remain silent and look at the phone, waiting for it to take the first step, then nothing will work for you, it just will not work. You must continue to live your life, enjoy, go to work, watch your favorite movies. And you know, even if it happens that my recommendation does not help you, you will not notice it.
See, you are simply fixated on it, you are obsessed with it, your relationship, well, or lack thereof. You have already begun to analyze your every correspondence, every conversation. It's time to focus on yourself.
Think, well, how a man will start to get bored if you are constantly around, looming before your eyes. You need to stop being so available and make him notice your absence!
This is how your silence will make a man bored!
He will see what he can lose
People are designed in such a way that they often don't appreciate what they have. And now, as soon as there is a risk of losing it, awareness comes. Perhaps the man took you for granted, because he was not afraid to lose you. And with your silence you will make him suddenly understand that the risk is real!
His habits will break
You have been with him for a long time, and you have become his habit. He is used to the fact that you call him, write that you communicate after work, that you are worried about him. Your silence will break his habit. He will want to see you, talk to you, he will start to get bored if you become unavailable.
He can analyze everything
He will begin to think why you suddenly moved away from him, why keep quiet, maybe he did something wrong. He will begin to remember what he said, how he behaved, analyze his every step, look for the reason for your silence. Maybe he offended you in some way?
You will sow doubt in him
Perhaps earlier he believed that your relationship is forever, you will not go anywhere, therefore he stopped paying attention to you. And your silence will make him doubt, make him think why you are not calling, maybe you don’t like him or you don’t love him. He will begin to think more about you, your behavior will become a challenge for him. He will think about how to get everything back.
He will have time
He will have more free time to think about your relationship. You, probably, have long understood that he is your destiny, but men need more time for this. While you are silent, he will be able to sort out his feelings, understand what he wants from the relationship, understand that he misses you.
Correct Use of Silence:
- Be online, but do not like his photo, do not comment, do not go to his page at all. Turn on ignore!
- When he starts to worry, and will call / write, do not answer him immediately. But you don't need to be completely silent either, just play for time, let the man realize that you have other things to do besides him.
- Do not drag out the correspondence, end the conversation first. Let him want more, and you make it clear that you have a lot to do. Just be careful, don't overdo it.
- You don't have to go to social networks at all, let the man start to worry, let him wonder what you are doing, what you are doing, where you are.
- More mystery. Do not rush to tell him everything, he does not need to immediately know about everything.
- Before you "turn on" the silence, leave your thing in his house so that he stumbles upon it, remembers you and misses.
Good luck, dear women, may everything be fine in your life, and a man who appreciates, respects and loves you remains by your side!
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