Unfortunately, nowadays young people very rarely listen to the advice of the older generation. I think we all once did not really listen to our parents, and strove to do everything in our own way. But still, there are things that are worth taking and then using them in life. Household secrets, secrets of personal care and, of course, finding a happy relationship. We will talk about the latter today.
If something went wrong in your relationship, in your marriage, your husband stopped consulting with you and more and more often disappears at work, the children generally stopped obeying and even your favorite fluffy cat, which sits exclusively on expensive cat food, began to shit in your slippers, then use these wise grandmothers tips. They will help you save your relationship and improve your life in general!
Shortly before my wedding, my grandmother came to visit us. I have always treated her with some trepidation. Firstly, I was brought up like that, and secondly, my grandmother became a second mother for me, and we always had very warm friendly relations. In recent years, my grandmother was often ill, but could not leave her granddaughter on such an important day for her. With her presence, I somehow felt calmer and more cheerful, and my dear grandmother also gave me very wise everyday advice for married life. I am absolutely confident that no matter who you are or how your marriage is, these tips will help you!
My personal experience has shown that grandmother's "moralizing" is not an empty phrase. Her advice helped me sometimes get out of quite crisis situations, and they can happen very often in family life. It is with great pleasure that I share my grandmother's wisdom with you!
Tips from a grandmother for marriage
Never fight with your spouse in front of children. This should never be done. Even if the urge, even if emotions are overwhelmed, it is better to remain silent. Firstly, children should not see this, because they will lose respect for you, you will cease to be an authority for them. Likewise, the father for the children will fall in their eyes, because in almost all clashes between parents, the mother remains the most unhappy for the child, and the father is an evil scoundrel who offends her. Children, for whom parents are not authorities, stop obeying and become uncontrollable. Secondly, when you endure it and don’t start throwing out emotions right away, then there will no longer be so much anger and anger on your part against your husband.
Never speak orderly to your husband. It is important to remember that men respond much better to requests for help than to pointing out.
Learn to put up first, forgive, seek compromises. Even if your spouse is wrong, and you are right, always think that peace in the family comes first!
There is no need to put things in order in the house, arriving in a bad mood. This will lead to the fact that you will further dilute the dirt in the house.
Learn something tone, develop. Because only an educated mother is capable of making children smart.
Jealousy destroys marriage mercilessly. Understand that if your husband loves you, then he will never cheat. And, if he began to look at others, then you will not be able to hold him back.
Your dishes should always be tasty and beautifully decorated so that both the husband and the children would be pleased to eat them.
The basis of absolutely every family relationship is mutual respect. If there is love between spouses, then there should be respect.
Listen to these simple tips and you can save your marriage and peace, love and happiness will reign in your family!
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