Often we, somehow without even bothering, hang labels on people. This one is always clean, polite, tidy - a good person, but this one without education, does not really work anywhere, greets every other time - he is definitely bad. But you cannot judge a person, because we do not know what he really is! Besides, as they say, do not judge, but you will not be judged!
Here's a story for you. She, I think, will definitely convince you that you can not hang labels on people, never!
The winter was very snowy. It snowed all night without ceasing. The city fell asleep so that the tractors did not have time to clear the roads even by eight in the morning, although they were working from four o'clock. Plus, it got colder, and now all the roads looked like a solid roller.
Pavel didn't even want to go out, but nobody canceled the work. Somehow gathering himself, still half asleep, he hobbled to the bus stop. Fortunately, it had a roof, and you could sit on a more or less cleaned bench. Pavel sat down more comfortably, wrapped himself in a coat and a scarf, and waited for the trolleybus.
Grandmother was walking on the other side of the road. Anna Petrovna had already celebrated her 70s, she lived alone, her children and grandchildren rarely visited her. Therefore, she had to buy her own groceries, and in fact she was already barely moving her legs. Plus, the weather let us down. Anna Petrovna quietly walked to the grocery store, and she had a small package in her hands, but it did not add balance to her at all. Well, and, of course, the granny slipped and fell on her back.
Pavel started, it seems, he felt all the pain that Anna Petrovna felt. In addition, the entire contents of the package flew to the sides. It turns out that there were many more small packages in this package, which, naturally, were blown in different directions by the wind. Pavel blew himself up to help his grandmother. But instantly he froze, because he was distracted by the company of young people.
Guys 20-22 years old were discussing something noisily, swearing, it was clear from their behavior that they were drunk. They were just walking from the side where Granny had fallen. One of the company noticed Anna Petrovna, called out to the others, and now the young people were raising their grandmother. Someone was picking up the packages that were scattered along the street, someone was shaking off an old coat for granny, someone was straightening her hat.
Pavel stood still on his side of the road, in shock. Granny was in the same shock. She knew these guys, they are from the next yard, hooligans, they drink almost every day, they are all afraid. And here she is in their hands, but they do nothing to her, but, on the contrary, help her. In a quiet, timid voice, Anna Petrovna thanked the guys, and she herself constantly looked around, because she was expecting some kind of trick.
Two of the company, stepped aside, quickly discussed something, and then one guy walked around the corner. Pavel thought that the bandits had stolen the wallet from his grandmother, and now they are trying to hide in an unknown direction. He began to look closely at the thieves, trying to remember as much as possible in their appearance. At the same time, Pavel thought that grandmother in her wallet most likely had mere pennies, and it is unlikely that she could become so valuable for the guys. In any case, somehow it was necessary to save the granny, but how, it was necessary to come up with.
The guys surrounded their grandmother and began to ask how to help her. They spoke so loudly that almost every word was heard. And then the kid who had disappeared around the corner before came back with two large bags of groceries. Paul again experienced a real shock. An unexpected act from a local gang. And the leader of this whole gang, invited grandmother to bring her home.
Do you believe in miracles? Do you think that if people do not please others with their behavior and lifestyle, if someone does not like them, if they are not like everyone else, then they are not capable of human actions? Pavel thought so too. But now he realized that you can't judge people by their clothes.
Sometimes a sensitive heart and a kind soul are hidden behind a very dubious look!
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