You may have felt a chill in your relationship. Is it worth worrying about this?
What signs indicate that you and your partner urgently need to start gluing the relationship.
Mistrust
Doubts about the honesty of a partner lead to problems in the family, says Suzanne Phillips, Ph.D. But you can fight mistrust, talk about yourself more, not use the family budget without approval, and not hide information.And, of course, you should not betray a person, because disclosing an affair on the side most often leads to divorce.
It happens that mistrust is not justified, for example, a person transfers his traumatic experience from childhood, difficulties arise with the regulation of emotions, low self-esteem.
Contempt
Disrespect is synonymous with neglect. If your partner allows you to joke about the flaws of a loved one in the presence of other people, if he makes fun of him hobbies, mocks or ignores, distracted by the phone, rolls his eyes... It is urgent to take decisive actions.
According to psychologist John Gottman, there are several behaviors that precede divorce, and neglect is one of them.
Disinterest
Alas, losing interest in a partner is also a global alarm. It means that a person has new hobbies, he is no longer focused on the family.The priorities have changed.
In this case, psychologists advise to change in accordance with how the partner has changed.
Take the first step to become interesting to him again, acquire new hobbies, set new goals for yourself.
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