7 of the rules of a happy life with children: family secrets

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Holidays, animators, cartoons, computer games, shopping trips and to the movies, entertainment events, all kinds of groups, sections each weekday and master classes on the weekend. And, of course, full of boxes of toys - is how the happy childhood is now. Perhaps this is because the current generation of mothers and fathers of all these benefits was not and they want to make up for it, looking for a full on their children.

Today's kids is very difficult to surprise, but their nervous system requires all new experiences. It should stop the flow of pleasure, there came boredom, followed by "breaking." Modern parents in an attempt to give the child bored spin like a squirrel in a wheel: spend time, money, sacrifice personal interests. And is it beneficial to the nervous system and the health of the baby, all these emotional surges, and that there was a terrible, if he bored?

The child in the family and not the family around the child. It is not necessary, sacrificing their own interests, to travel only on children's health resorts, when you want to go on a tour of European castles or culinary tour. And going to a movie exclusively on unnecessary cartoons. A child could easily fit into your value system and absolutely no reason to create him some special conditions.

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Unload your calendar. Diversifying the crumbs from an early age often becomes the most important task of many parents. They ask for leave from work or pay for nurses, so that they drove the child to swimming, drawing, English, mathematics, music lessons, speed reading and modeling. And if your child needs these classes? Succeed in everything is impossible, but to overload the child's nervous system - completely. It is better to drive a child on any one section, but that really appealed to him.

Dinner together. Instead of going to the fast food restaurant you can play at home. For example, cook a pizza to your favorite kid. The main thing - do it together. Scarce can be a chef or waiter served table and feed the most currently (pre-painted) menu. These family dinners child will remember with a smile and in adulthood, and hike in the cafe will be forgotten the next day.

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for family time. Often an abundance of gifts and experiences for the weekend - compensation for the children of working parents because they do not give them enough time on weekdays. The best option would be to allocate (for example, every Saturday) time for some kind of a common family business. To schedule it in advance and in any case not to cancel, despite external factors. Let it be something that you can do, no where slowly along: creative, walk in the woods, sharing cooking dinner. And let the whole world wait.

Learn to enjoy the routine. When the world - it's an amusement park, and my mother - a magical fairy who fulfills all desires, it is very difficult to learn to enjoy the little things. And it is quiet simple joy, rather than an endless stream of pleasure are the key to inner feelings of fullness and happiness. The smell of my mother's baking and fairy tale, read the pope at night, leave a significant imprint on the soul of a child than going to the water park.

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Take care of your home together.Even in very small crumbs should be in the home position, the order that the child should attend. Let it be limited to a single shelf with toys. The child must understand that the garbage thrown someone has to pick up, and after a cup of tea - wash. Not having its area of ​​responsibility, it is very easy to believe that all life - a holiday and play.

Reduce the number of toys. Here it is necessary to take not quantity but quality. Each toy should have its own place and purpose. Designers, simple dolls and blocks stimulate a child to play, develop his imagination, and do not play in his place, as do the bright plastic innovations on batteries.

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