What not to do when quarreling with a partner: advice from Dmitry Karpachev

Sometimes harmless disagreements turn into real enmity and even end in divorce. What is worth remembering in order to avoid the negative consequences of the conflict - said Dmitry Karpachev, the host of the psychological reality TV Supermama and the Lie Detector project at STB.

On the social network, the TV presenter shared four important tips to help avoid resentment and the negative consequences of a quarrel.

“Never mention your parents.

The fact is that your fight should only affect you and your partner, therefore - never mention your parents. Resentment for your parents will sink so deep that you cannot get rid of it for many years. Also, don't let your parents get involved in your fights. If, nevertheless, this happened, then the problem affects not only the husband and wife, but both families. It is very easy to turn such a fight into enmity. And, even if harmony is restored between husband and wife, there will be contradictions between families, which will only complicate life.

Avoid any violence. ⠀

Quarrels usually reveal neither good characters, nor noble ladies, nor gallant gentlemen. Very often couples, getting involved in a tough quarrel, cannot appeal with words and go on to fist fights. No matter how angry or angry you are, never allow yourself or your partner to resort to violence. The pain received from a loved one will simply destroy the love between you.

Never talk about divorce.

It doesn't matter what words you say to each other, but never mention divorce. Even if you just want to threaten it, but internally you are not ready for it. These are the most offensive words that a husband or wife can say. Divorce will necessarily follow if one of the partners constantly mentions him during a quarrel. If you still love each other, you will regret all your life that in a fit of anger you made an impulsive divorce or even mentioned it.

Never leave home during an argument. ⠀

The movies often show how the wife / husband runs out of the house to catch up with their soul mate and apologize. However, in the real world, this is unlikely to happen. Leaving home during an argument is the most incompetent behavior. The best way is to keep silent about your partner's remarks, and when he calms down, try to resolve the conflict, ” - Dmitry Karpachev advises.

Let us remind you that the "Lie Detector" project is released on Mondays at 19:00 on STB. The premiere of the second season of the reality TV Supermama will take place on the channel in October.

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