Each couple goes through a stage when the relationship loses its original brightness and passion, routine comes first.
Give thanks more often for what is
And not only out loud, but also mentally. At the end of each day, try to remember all the good things that the other half did for you, family and home. Even if these are little things that you don't always notice in the whirlwind of the day.
Remember also the global and important good deeds that your loved one did during any period of your relationship. People who remember how much they mean to each other are more likely to feel happy.
Don't build up grudges
The more irritation and unspoken grievances inside you, the more difficult and tense the relationship becomes. How easy is it to talk about if a string of discontent is spinning in your brain over the past ten years - and you remember every misconduct of your half.
Resentment destroys love. If you can express them, discuss them and come to a compromise, it's high time. If the question is insoluble, let go of this insult, it poisons your life, first of all.Touch each other often
Happiness is often hidden in little things - kisses, hugs, touches. The more tactile contact between you during the day, the more tenderness and sensuality there will be in the relationship.
Start something together
Find a hobby that you both enjoy and become a common hobby. It can be anything from going to the pool and climbing lessons to painting, cross-stitching and volunteering. In a common lesson, you will open up to each other in a new way.
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