Marriage is a tandem of two. However, there are jambs on both sides.
You are trying to remake a man
First, it is useless. Secondly, it is offensive. You either accept a man with his flaws and oddities, or are looking for the very one. There is no other way, alas.
Question his masculinity
Even if you have problems in bed, this should not go beyond it. This we mean that there is no need to tell the girlfriends about this at all. This behavior is not the best way to inspire him to feats. Learn not to ridicule and judge your partner, but to seek together a solution to the problem that has arisen.
You are a control freak
A man wants to see next to him a self-sufficient woman who has life goals and interests that are not limited to total control over her spouse. Remember: he already has one mother. But he wants to see another life partner.
You cannot close your eyes to minor mistakes on the part of your husband.
You will have to get used to and come to terms with the fact that it has flaws (and you are far from ideal). Small mistakes can be dealt with with a kind word and the right motivation. And no, nagging and name-calling do not apply to her. The main thing to remember is that there is no need to step on your own throat. And if a man is such a ballast in your life, then do you really need him?
You don't value your partner's personal space
Every person needs to be alone from time to time. This does not mean that he no longer loves you, or loves you, but not as much as before. He just needs at least an hour of silence. Only for myself.
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