What should I do if my child gets sick? Psychologists and therapists offer children to consider not only medical, but also psychological reasons.
The child does not get enough attention.
Disease - a way to get that disease-free child can not receive. Suppose that the baby does not get enough attention of parents, and if he is ill, the mother and father are near constantly.
The child does not want to take responsibility. School, sports, and even my mother asked to tidy up the room... For a child all this excessive burden, he does not want to take on this responsibility, and illness gives him the opportunity to spend days doing nothing, and the feelings of guilt not.The ban on emotions. If the family is not accepted to express negative emotions, the child directs them to yourself. He can not be angry, swear, be offended.
In short, it is impossible to express themselves, can not be themselves. In this case, the child feels guilty for the display of emotions each time.
Failure to comply with the request of the parents
. Due to the age of the child can not do this, he must still grow up to do it.
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Balancing family system. Even small children are well aware of what is going on with their parents. If there are conflicts in the family, children traditionally take the fire itself. They know that the disease will cause the parents together to take care of it until the recovery.
Installation parents. Be careful, psychologists claim that even the words of the parents that the child is weak and painful may provoke a new disease. Do not say that to her child.Internal contradictions. Dad asked him not to touch him because he was busy, and mother requires that the child came to my father and something he asked.
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