Very often, our understanding of marriage is based on a list of literature and films studied before entering it.
Man to change for the one he loves
Forget it. No one will change for you. You can talk to a person for a long time about what you do not like about him, but he will take the decision to change this in himself only on the basis of his own desire.
Wife and husband think the same in all matters
Of course, mutual understanding should be fundamental to a strong marriage. However, these are primarily two separate individuals who think purely as independent units. In many ways, opinions may coincide, but the option when the opinions of the spouses are absolutely polarized is not at all a rarity in the modern world, but rather a pattern.Wedding changes relationships
Many people think that it strengthens them or provides guarantees. In fact, she does not change anything except your name in your passport and a new ring on your ring finger. Take this point easier. Yes, this is a new stage in your lives. But you make it so, and not the presence of a festive celebration.
Default marriage makes you happy
Another misjudgment is that marriage gives you boundless and undeniable happiness. As we wrote above, marriage itself has a very nominal value. What matters is what you put into the relationship and how important they are to you in the first place.
Friends are the first to help you identify the problem.
They say that from the outside all the roughness of the union is better visible. In fact, only the two of you can control your relationship. If you want to resolve the issue, do not involve your girlfriend or friend in it. First, the couple's problems must remain that way within the union. Secondly, for sure, even the best friend does not know the smallest details about marriage, from which you are aware.
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