What you can't tell children

But some things told at a too young age will only harm your child.

Your childhood eating habits

It is clear that not all children love broccoli and tomatoes since childhood, they like sweets and chips much more.

Now you are an adult, you know how important it is to eat a balanced diet. But if you confess to a child that you yourself have sinned 25 years ago, you will not be able to teach him to eat properly for several more years.

Quarrels with other people

Children should not comfort their parents or take sides during family conflicts. Even if someone is wrong, do not force the child to choose between the people he truly loves.

Using a baby as a tear vest is a bad tactic.

Your plans after lights out

When the children go to bed, parents have time for themselves, you can soak up the bathroom, make procedures, watch a movie, be with your partner. But if you tell your child you want to do this and that when he goes to sleep ...

You can say goodbye to your plans, because the child will not sleep for as long as possible, attracting the attention of the parents in all ways.

Features of childbirth

Of course, to answer the question of where children come from is a whole art. But it is definitely not necessary to say that it hurt. You can, unwittingly, cause fear in the girl, which she will have to cope with already at a conscious age.

Family financial situation

Everyone has hard times, even if the husband has lost his job or money is needed for treatment ...

Why also drive your child into stress, because he will not be able to help you with advice or somehow fix the situation. In addition, children may feel guilty about the problem and lose their peace of mind for many months.

Recall

• Slava Kaminskaya told how she is raising a child with an ex-spouse.
• 3 myths that prevent you from raising a child.
• how to involve a husband in raising a child?