Children sometimes bring tantrums from scratch. But don't blame it on bad character or bad upbringing.
Psychologists remind that children often go through several age crises. Avoiding them all is almost impossible.
Newborn crisis
A child is already born in stress, because he has to change a comfortable intrauterine existence for an independent life outside the mother's body. A child needs time and resources to get used to breathing, eating, seeing and hearing. The adaptation period lasts 1-2 months.One year crisis
Here problems arise due to the fact that the child learns to actively learn about the world and interact with it. He starts walking and talking. Now the child needs more space to explore the space. Parents may notice that the baby is trying to do more everyday things on his own.
Three Years Crisis
At this age, the child is already trying to show his worth. He is a separate person with his own desires and unwillingness, it would be time for you, dear parents, to come to terms with this, otherwise there will be a conflict.At the age of three, the baby begins to be stubborn about and without, all so that his I was the main one.
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Seven Years Crisis
The child needs new social contacts, the childish spontaneity goes away, it is replaced by experience. Let it be childish and naive, but still acquired on its own. This is a natural and correct process!
The crisis is manifested by changes in behavior, the child may, for example, begin to twist the parents.
Teenage crisis
The most difficult crisis arises due to the fact that the child has an imbalance in the pace of development of the biological, social and psychological spheres. Sometimes symptoms appear at 10 years old, and sometimes at 15.The child begins to be emotionally unstable, he strives for independence, concentrates on his peers.
Youth crisis (17 years old)
The child is on the verge of a new life, he understands his responsibility for his future.
Try to be a guide and supportive child.
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