Raising a daughter is another matter that requires maximum accuracy and concentration.
Pampering
Many people mistakenly believe that raising a girl should be much more relaxed than a boy. However, this is not at all the case. Psychologists advise adhering to the principle of absolute equality. You shouldn't go out of your skin to buy her a new thing. A girl should know the value of things and everything that is in her life.
To instill in her outdated stereotypes
"The woman is the keeper of the hearth", "the woman is the mother", "the woman is the hostess" and many more similar stereotypes. We live in a truly stereotypical society, where everyone expects too much from a fragile girl. Do not follow the same strategy. The girl's parents should show her that she has the right to choose any of the paths of development that she considers suitable for herself. And not only to cook borscht for a lifetime and wash diapers.Hyper-care
She doesn't work with anyone. Only in the case of a boy is there a chance to raise a mama's son, and with a girl - to earn her psychological trauma. At the age of 14-16, adolescents undergo a process of moral separation from their parents. This is important to become a whole person. If you deprive her of this opportunity and continue to patronize the mother's wing, the girl may develop a psychology of a victim, which certainly will not lead her to good.
Recall
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