Relationship with a child is not the easiest job that requires daily emotional investment.
Do not scold children in public
Public humiliation and insult will only cause discord in your relationship with your child. That is why it is important to sort things out in private. Best of all - at home. It is also important to note that if there is only a fight between you, you do not need to drag the other parent into the conflict. This will only worsen the baby's position.
Ask your child about everything
And not just about his successes. And in their absence, even more so, you should not scold the child. Success is the fruit of the work of parents with a child, in the first place. That is why it is worth making more efforts so that the baby strives for more in the future. For this, it is you who must become a role model with which he will follow an example.Don't criticize the child
Stop thinking that criticism (even the most constructive one in the world) can give your child an impetus to work on mistakes. For the most part, criticism only instills in the child the fear of making mistakes and constraint in actions. In the future, this will lead to a lack of ambition and aspirations in life.
Trust baby
The child should feel a powerful wall of protection behind his shoulders. At an early age, only you can organize it. That is why it is worth showing both in word and deed that you are always on his side. You should not solve problems for him, but let him know: you will always be there and can become an excellent insurance for force majeure situations.
Recall
- Why do children crawl backwards
- 6 reasons why kids don't listen to adults
- 5 phrases you shouldn't say to your child's father
