Parents to be difficult. Nowhere do not teach. And we all want to see our children happy and to be ideal teachers for them. How to become good parents?
To cultivate a harmonious and self-confident personality, parents should, first of all, yourself to be happy. And then - to follow the simple rules.
Do not control every step
Overprotection of a child It never brings anything good. Children brought up by the control of each step, grow into insecure people. They are afraid of a lifetime to go beyond your comfort zone. Do not patronize too learn at an early age of the child. Of course, we should not stick his hands in the burner, so he knew the danger of fire. But to walk on the heels of 10 years - too.
Do not swear in front of the child
This does not mean that the need to swear by going into another room. Any scandal knocks the safety ground from under the feet of the child. All questions need to find out peacefully. Even when you on the rocks, Keep a friendly relationship. At an early age lays the behavioral patterns of a child. Scandals, he will take in his adult life.
Levies monsters in his room
You have to teach the baby to deal with their fears. It is important not to frighten him. The ability to defeat the most terrible monsters will help the child in adulthood are not afraid of new barriers.
Answer all the questions
"Mom, why the sun yellow? And why does it shine? And what is the penis "Answer the child is not" you live - know "and fully. Of course, all the details to open is not necessary, but tell the truth. Natural curiosity that parents support, help the child not to be afraid of new information and knowledge.
praise
The maximum lot, the most honest, the most often. Praise for the child - the wings on which he will fly into adulthood. Do not be afraid to praise. Remember, in life there are too many people who are against the child. Become his rear, which can come in a difficult moment.
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