Many parents mistakenly believe that they are doing everything right and without a single mistake in raising a child.
Blame the child for their problems
Parents often, in gusts of anger, blame their child for the main problems that occur in their life. Remember forever: a child can never be the cause of your problems. Bad mood, bad day - but not your baby. Don't even think about saying things like that to him. Otherwise, you will easily develop feelings of guilt in him.
Being afraid to make mistakes
The child is not a field for experiments, but it is on it that you will have to learn to be parents. You can make mistakes - and that's okay. The main thing is not to be afraid to do it. After all, lack of attention is even more gross mistake than the wrong method of education.Insulting a child's feelings
Don't get personal with your child. As in any relationship, your connection with him should be based solely on feelings of respect for each other. Know how to define boundaries correctly. After all, only thanks to this you will be able not to cross it, using forbidden methods: manipulation and humiliation.
Take childhood away from a child
Childhood will not repeat itself. This problem often affects parents with two children. The first one automatically becomes a nanny for the younger. But in this way, you are brazenly stealing the best years from your oldest child. But he also wants to be carefree to the extent that affects all children.
Can't show love
In any case, it is better to overlove the child than to dislike. Do not be afraid to show feelings as to a child, because it is on the basis of them that he will already build his family according to your example.
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