We recommend trying the following parenting methods.
Time-out
This method disciplines the child well. The bottom line is simple: as soon as the child misbehaves, you warn him that you are about to send him to "time out". If he does not obey you, you send the child to another room as calmly as possible, completely isolating him from the situation in which he misbehaves.
If the child is 2 years old, leave him for a minute, if he is older, add a minute for each year. The child will soon realize that bad behavior is followed by a warning and then a "time-out".
Connection
If the child misbehaves in the store, use the connection method: don't yell at him, just keep him busy with an important assignment. For example, suppose he puts the items he wants in a cart or basket. And constantly it praise.
Humor
Children understand very well humor. For example, a child begins to be capricious and cry. You can stand in front of him, silently look at him and say: “How great are you at crying. And you can teach me this way, please! "After these words, you will immediately see a smile on the child's face.
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Contradictions
Use contradictions in situations like this. When a child is hysterical, do not shout back, but simply say: "How beautiful you are crying, cry again!" If the child can't hear you, just say, "No, not that way, you did better last time." You will see how in a few minutes conflict will be exhausted.
Timer
If a child is watching cartoons, and it is time for him to have dinner, do not turn off the TV, try to call baby and tell him that he has only 2 minutes to watch the cartoon, and then he should go eat. Even if your child does not know how to keep track of the time by the clock, he will understand: you warned him, but he will deserve it, you respect him.
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