So, so!
Big mistake to start conversation with this phrase. It evokes one desire - to start defending. And parents should not attack their child, but simply convey their message to him.
In my house!
This terrible phrase will lead the teenager to the idea that he does not have his own refuge, where he can be himself.
It doesn't matter to me what you want!
This phrase says teenager that it is not important and unnecessary. After the said phrase, do not hope that you will quickly find a common language with your child.
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I'm not interested in why!
The time will come and after this phrase the teenager will stop listening to you and simply withdraw into himself. Better ask him why it turned out this way and not otherwise, and then your child will go to meet you.
You have no right to talk to me like that!
This phrase inspires teenagerthat he has no rights to something. In your conversation, the adult is you, and therefore the responsibility for a calm dialogue lies not with your child, but with the parents.
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