Even the most ideal parents can make mistakes from time to time.
Less "not" in communication
Try to avoid the prefix "not" in any ambiguous situations. Instead of the prohibition to say "be careful", "carefully" or "carefully". Believe me, he will definitely appreciate this tactic of communicating with you.
"You will not make it"
The child will have a streak of mistrust and demotivation in the future. As a parent, you must do whatever is necessary to give him confidence in his actions. No matter how wrong he is, tell him that if it doesn't work out now, you have to try again and again, and next time he will definitely get his way.
Compare him with other children
Any comparison of a child with his one-year-old, who is better in something, somehow shakes your child's self-esteem. Do you really want to raise your kid with complexes? Believe me, in the future they will only worsen and provoke more disorders of the psycho-emotional state.
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