Parents naughty children know that retrain child accustomed to demand his, unfortunately, is almost impossible.
It remains constant or go to conflictsTo a small rebel knew when to stop, or allow him everything. Psychologists have identified three errors that may lead to the fact that the child will grow completely out of control.
1. You only pay attention to bad behavior.If parents make comments only significant faults and normal behavior or attempts obedience to ignore the child feels that his efforts to do something good for the parents not make sense.
Moreover, the whims can become a means of attracting the attention of parents, which is not present if the child behaves well.
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2. You do not explain or change the rules of the game.
Psychologists are regularly reminded of the two errors that lead only to negative. First, mom and dad give a child different directions about the same prohibitions. Secondly, mom or dad repeal their bans depending on the mood. As a result, the child is confused, does not know what to expect from their parents, and their restrictions can no longer be taken seriously, because yesterday it was possible!
3. You do not make a plan.
And it is necessary, if the parents have decided to carry out the correction of behavior of the child! All adults involved in the education of a girl or boy, should develop equal and consecutive reactions to certain actions and mistakes of the child. Discipline and consistency are important, so that the child used to them.Timely elimination of these errors in education will allow to grow an obedient child who will be considered with the authority of parents.
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