For many young mothers the first lie of the baby when the baby something broke and unlocked until the last seems to be something scary. Many people think if the child is lying in four years, it will be worse and that a change would be simply impossible, but it's not as scary as it seems. Still, between lying and imagination kid there is a difference, which should be considered.
Lies involves fraudulent misrepresentation. Most often, this is done in order to obtain a benefit or escape from punishment. Fantasia - a figment of the imagination, without goals and reasons.
Many children in the three to four years of age are trying to manipulateadults, and it just becomes a habit. The reason for this behavior - misunderstanding of truth and falsehood as such. The fact that an understanding of what is true, usually comes already at school age.
Until about ten years the child is guided only by the views of parents,if they are not satisfied, it means that something has gone wrong. Most often, children use lies as a security object.
So a child hiding from the wrath of parents who neglect their peers.
Do not panic and hysteria breeding. Calm will find the right solution. Show your child that you understand very well that the above fabrication. Explain to your child what his mistake, tell us how bad this act, but do not insult and do not scold the child. Pofantaziruet with the baby, it might be, if he had not lied to you, and tell the truth. Show off your baby, no matter what happens do not worry, if the child is telling the truth. But if he tell lies, all certainly know about it and will be much stronger than the curse. Look for the cause of this lies. If you immediately get into the cause and eliminate it, lies no longer arise.
Help your child to understand yourselfand do not resort to prohibited methods of achieving the goal. Try not to file a bad example for your child. To demand something from the child, we should start with ourselves. Do not push your child tricky questions, it is only inflame his desire to lie. Do not panic once again. Almost all children go through this period, and are honest people who know nothing about pathological liars.