What has 2020 taught us? The fact that human life is too fragile. Overnight, a person can simply disappear from the face of the earth, and only leave a memory about himself. We cannot imagine what awaits us tomorrow, so today we need to make every effort to make our life better. You can be a good and positive person around, but others can greatly spoil your existence, and disrupt all your plans.
To make you feel easier, you need to throw off this ballast of people you don't need who have ruined your existence and continue to do so. Toxic people make your life miserable, they prevent you from achieving your goals, they prevent you from breathing deeply. You definitely deserve to be around those who inspire you to be better, who make you smile, who inspire you to pursue your dreams, who motivate you to become better.
Say goodbye to those who are incapable of compromising and do not know how to ask for forgiveness. You just need to let them float freely. If they are sure that they never make mistakes and never agree to be responsible for their actions, then leave them. Don't try to change them, make them better, you won't succeed. They will continue to retreat, instead of becoming better, wiser, changing, working on themselves.
Say goodbye to those who tell you that you are overly sensitive. Maybe it's time to surround yourself with people who perfectly understand that you have many worries, problems, and that it is not easy for you. Chat with those who will never tell you that you are bored with their whining. Chat with those who tell you that you are a good person, you have a big heart, and you can handle everything!
It's time to say goodbye to those people who don't give a damn about you. They can turn any little thing into a real competition with you, and make you feel bad with their behavior. Sometimes you even start to feel bad about the things that gave you pleasure before.
Stop associating with people who shamelessly use your kind heart. They need your communication only when they feel bad, when they need to complain about their life, to find “free ears”. They are with you only when you need it, and when you need help, they disappear.
It's time to say goodbye to people who force you to do what you don't want to do. They make you spend time in a way you don't like, watch a movie that you don't like, drink in a cafe with them, although you don't like it either. It is worth forever parting with people who do not understand the word "no" and ignore any of your opinions. They do not want to reckon with your opinion, they do not care about your thoughts, they only care about themselves.
Say goodbye to people who give you frowns and ambiguous compliments. They make you feel like a secondary, insignificant person. They feel good that they humiliate you. They are never happy about your achievements and successes. They envy you, but hidden envy, which is a thousand times worse.
It's time to get rid of this darkness completely. And communication with toxic people cannot be called otherwise! They destroy you, they prevent you from living your own life, they take advantage of you, manipulate and transform your existence into fear, pain, failure.
The end of 2020 is the time to say goodbye to toxic people!
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