My husband has one colleague at work, Andrey, who has a rather difficult fate. He is 38 years old and has already been married twice and has two children. And what is the complexity of fate? That he is twice a widower! His children are his pain and great happiness to tears.
While still a student, he met his first wife. Then both graduated from the university. Such a charming thin girl, with a dimple on her cheeks, full lips and deep brown eyes, simply charmed Andrei. They met with Anya for almost a year. At first they were friends, then they grew to each other, got married, and lived for two years in a student hostel. After graduating from university, both got a job in the same organization. So everything was good with them, they understood each other, respected, and then decided to have a baby.
But nothing happened. Anya had a miscarriage, but, as it turned out later, the problems had just begun. Many tears, depression, scandals at home, doctors forbade getting pregnant for some gynecological reasons. But the guys did not give up, and, contrary to the prohibitions of the doctors, they decided on another pregnancy.
Unfortunately, the pregnancy was very difficult, besides, during an interesting position, Anya was diagnosed with serious heart problems. She was categorically contraindicated to give birth. But she still did not go for an abortion at the insistence of the doctors, and Andrei, he was so happy that he simply did not could send his wife to murder, he protected Anya in every possible way, did not let her worry and did all of her whims.
At the 24th week of pregnancy, Anya was taken by an ambulance, she was in the hospital for a month, and she was generally forbidden to get up. Constant IVs, injections, hospital corridors. Then discharge, and in 2 weeks re-hospitalization. This continued throughout the pregnancy. And then a cesarean section, and Andrei found out only in the morning that his daughter was born at night and then his wife died. Three cardiac arrests, and the last time it didn't start.
Andrey survived grief, for five years living only for his adorable daughter Anyuta. He named her after her mother, pleased her in everything, pampered her. Andrey learned to braid pigtails, knew all the preferences of his daughter, spent all his free time with her, took her to the garden, bought bright dresses.
Friends introduced Andrei to the girl Christina. She was the same age as Andrei, and alone raised her six-year-old son Alyoshka, whose father had long been deprived of his rights. Everything spun so quickly. Christina turned out to be a very kind, friendly woman, she made friends with Anyuta, and this was very important. Andrei and Christina began to meet, and the man just once did not let the woman and her son go home. So the four of them began to live. The couple got married.
The happiness lasted for two years. Andrei fully recovered after losing his wife. Anyuta called Christina a mother, and the man also adopted her son Alyosha. The family moved to another city, where nothing reminds of the sorrow of the past.
Everything collapsed so quickly. Christina was not taken to the hospital in time. She was waiting at the bus stop for a minibus, a foreign car skidded, and she crashed right into people. Almost no one was hurt, only Christina took the whole blow. The driver was drunk and the woman was in a very serious condition. This is pain that cannot be endured.
Why am I writing all this? We are used to meeting single mothers with a difficult fate. But we forget that there are also men who had to experience all the bitterness of loss. Andrei has two native graves, and two dear little people - his children.
What do you think, should he once again connect his fate with a woman? Will he be able to find happiness? And what should he do? He is strong, he has someone to live for, but he is so scared that grief may come to his house again ...
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