Now a lot of couples living together are somehow in no hurry to register their relationship with the registry office. The older generation does not understand this kind of situation, and is extremely dissatisfied with this "fashion". Civil marriage - after all, there was no such thing before, there was either an official marriage with a stamp in the passport, or there was nothing. Now, men and women can not only live together, but also raise joint children, but have no stamp in their passports. And as for the wedding, only a few go through such a sacrament!
Everyone has a different attitude to living together, but more often than not it acquires importance in the eyes of others. Women in such relationships are confident in themselves, they say that living and not registering is their personal decision, and that the roommates are none other than their husbands!
But this is beneficial for men! For some reason, they are not ready to take responsibility. They like civil marriage, because they can always calmly get out of the relationship, even despite promises and common offspring. And you can safely go for treason, the relationship is not registered. The man says that he lives with a woman, she is his beloved, partner, concubine. The woman says that the man is her husband, although this is not so.
Unfortunately, a lot of girls fall for such a bait. For some reason, they are sure that if there is a civil marriage, then it will definitely end in an official one. Therefore, they, just living with men, begin to serve them: cook, wash, please. And men live practically as if they were free, and owe nothing to anyone. Women remain goodies, because they piously believe that if you endure everything, you will be married. And sometimes they even close their eyes to betrayal of partners, their alcohol consumption, their boorish behavior.
Here is a woman, all so beautiful, who has lived with her beloved for a single year, begins to ask: when is the registry office? And then the man has new excuses: until the time is not there, there is no money, the wrong time of year, relatives cannot come, he has to buy an apartment, paperwork is tiresome, etc. Sly, isn't it? After such phrases, it is better to just turn around and leave, but no, naive ladies are on their own again come up with beautiful fantasies about a joint marriage and a happy future with a so-called husband, and suffer again.
Sometimes it happens that such a relationship suits a woman. For example, she is not yet sure of a partner, has already been married, well, or simply does not want to associate herself with anyone with legal responsibility. But still, almost all girls dream of a white dress, a celebration, the official status of a wife. And they become so attached to their partner that they make him the center of the universe. And the peasants are only at hand, and they use it without a twinge of conscience!
What awaits women in a civil marriage, what does it lead them to? You need to soberly evaluate everything and understand that a civil marriage does not guarantee you an official one. An official marriage is guaranteed only by an application submitted to the registry office, and that's it!
That is why, dear women, remember that you are just a model of your wife, you are taking a test drive of your spouse's functions, and no one can tell you for sure whether your roommate will marry you or not! And do not forget about this when you are going to have joint children with your partner!
It is clear that you should not put everyone together like that, and always be prepared for the roommate to leave, torment yourself with such thoughts. But you need to look at how a man behaves, how he fulfills his other obligations, what his goals, plans are, is there you in all this.
There are also very strong unions that have lived for many years without a stamp in their passports, and are happy! But you always need to distinguish between the concepts of cohabitation and marriage. Only a stamp in the passport can speak of confirmation of obligations to a partner. Therefore, I recommend that women, before entering into cohabitation with men, find out what their attitude towards marriage, children, and themselves is. So you can protect yourself from unnecessary expectations, wasted energy and time!
How do you feel about a civil marriage?
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