Each mother has her own ways and methods of raising her sons. But there are also general points that any mommy will agree with, if she is reasonable. Severity and affection, and this should be correctly combined, emotional contact, the ability to always come to the rescue and understanding the inner world of a child... It turns out that being a mother of a boy is quite difficult, but honorable and happy mission!
Here are the basic tips for mothers of sons to help raise a real man out of him!
The boy must run, jump, jump, climb everywhere - to learn about the world in all possible ways. Therefore, you should not make a scandal over every torn jacket, pants, suit. Yes, the thing may be a pity, but it is not worth dramatizing. Let! As he grows up, your mischievous son will surely enter the necessary calm rut.
The boy must have ways to release his energy. Therefore, the best options are playing sports or caring for the dog. You can enroll him in a music school. Immediately, be prepared for the fact that girls are calm creatures, even the most mischievous, but boys are noisy and restless.
Your son should be able to help others. Only his help should be carried out without compulsion. It is important that the boy is able to feel like a real man.
It is important to always answer the son's questions when he says: "Why?" At first, parents are the most important source of information for him.
You need to get into the interests of your son. If your boy loves football, you will have to learn all its subtleties. Watch what your child is playing on the computer, what interests him on the phone. Don't distance yourself, show that you are a friend, and take part in his life.
Take walks with your son, devoting this time to intimate conversation and strengthening the connection.
Appreciate your son's achievements, even if they seem insignificant to you. For the son, your support and approval will be an incentive for further achievements. And this will give him self-confidence.
You need to accustom your son to independence as early as possible. It will be very useful to him in life, because no one knows how it will turn out for him.
Teach your child to read, read to him yourself, read with him. Reading helps in development, and this is a very useful habit, as well as an opportunity to spend time together and establish emotional contact with your son.
A son should have authority, an example to follow. It may be his father, grandfather, godfather, uncle, or maybe some great person whose biography you told him about.
It is important to instill good manners in your son. Elementary "thank you", "please", respect for elders, as well as teach not to interrupt, not litter, give way, etc. So your boy will grow up to be a well-mannered man.
Explain to your son that showing weakness is not shameful. Only with the help of daily hard work can you gain strength of character and body. Your little son has time to become really strong.
It is necessary for the father or other adult close man to teach the boy the key things. It is important! Of course, ideally, for dad to be engaged in raising his son, to instill in him all the necessary nuances, the boy needs male companionship!
Teach the boy not to be ashamed of caresses, because many with age begin to "fucking" and move away from the mothers who kiss them. Explain to your son that it is natural to be gentle with someone.
Boys have much deeper emotions than you might think. They just hold them back. Someone thinks that this is girly, someone is restrained by nature.
The whole life of boys, and then of men, is a continuous competition. In childhood, it is who is the first to come running to school, who climbs a tree higher, who has cooler sneakers or a bicycle, who can pull up more times. This is inherent in the male nature - the desire for competition!
Mothers of sons, do you have anything to add?
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