Today I don't want to talk about cosmetics, and even about fashion and trends, but I want to talk about my own, about women's. Women are often quite sacrificial in relation to their men, but are these sacrifices necessary? I don’t think so. It is important that the relationship remains healthy. You don't have to go far, each of us has such women around us. Or maybe you yourself are?
I am a supporter of the golden mean in everything, including love relationships. Here you will not see the slogans "All men are bastards", "Let a man do everything for me, and I will stand like this in a beautiful dress", but there will also be no calls "We must live for the sake of a man", "Husband is the center of the universe." Somewhere between all of this there is an excellent adequacy of the perception of relationships.
What shouldn't you do for a man?
Adjust to his beauty standards
"Honey, you are beautiful, but I would like to see you blonde.". Normal turn! And I would like to see you red and curly, let's go to the salon together? Or "Do not try to cut your hair," sometimes it comes to the point of absurdity, and it's not just that a girl can want to change, but the fact that sometimes cutting off 10 cm of hair is a necessity, since quality is always more important length. And it's one thing when a man admires your beautiful long hair and says that he really likes it, and another thing is a ban on haircuts.
Remaking yourself for the sake of a man is so-so. Do it for yourself! Of course, you can consult, this is another question.
Give up hobbies
Before you loved going to dance classes, and then you decided that it is better to spend this time making pies and the most delicious buns for your loved one? Or worse, the man doesn't like the fact that every Tuesday and Thursday evening you are out.
Dissolving in a man completely, pushing your hobbies and desires into the background is hardly the best option. And most likely he is even disgusting. Remember that you are not only a partner in a relationship, but also a person. You can bake pies and delicious buns without prejudice to your hobby, even if it will be less frequent, but you know, it is more useful for the figure.
Give up friends
There is a type of men who, appearing in a woman's life, completely isolates her from communication with friends. In my opinion, this is a real tyrant. And he doesn't like your friend Masha because she looks vulgar, your Tanya is a man-hater and drowns for independence, and your Natasha was generally married 4 times, she will still want something
At the same time, a man sees no reason to change his social circle. He continues to meet with his friends despite the fact that his Valera is a big womanizer, Seryozha loves to abuse beer, and Igor at 40 lives with his mother and quietly hates all women. Or not quiet.
In general, the topic of friends who do not like partners, regardless of gender, is very acute for many couples.
Listening to negativity towards relatives
It's crazy for me when men say unpleasant things about their woman's parents or loved ones. In fairness, I note that hearing this from women is also unpleasant. Not everyone was lucky with their mother-in-law and mother-in-law, but this does not give the right to speak disrespectfully.
How can you tolerate the phrase "Your mom got to come and teach us life"? Even if she really got it, one should not forget about respect. Parents are sacred, and let them not always behave correctly, and sometimes cause problems. You may disagree with me, but for me this is simply unacceptable!
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