Program "Morning reporter with the" Inter ", author and columnist," Daddy Blog ", open and cheerful Dmitry Chistyakov He told reporters about his paternity, that it irritates the children, and whose advice guided in the child's upbringing.
How did the idea of creating a "Daddy Blog"?
Was once the heading "Mom blog". In it she talks about how to deal with a child. Topic is over, and there was a request to make a sequel. Then our producer Eugene Tolstyakov thought that the viewer constantly see mothers with children, but with the baby's father - it is something new, the theme is not worn out. Stories when the Pope is trying to understand the problems of education and development of the child, on Ukrainian television has ever had. When filming began Maxim was six months old. It was first aired in January 2018, when his son was seven months. Maxim is now almost half a year. During this time managed to capture two of the season - it's almost seventy issues. People are watching, they are interested in. There is feedback from the audience.
The purpose of the program what?
To help, to teach, to give advice. We did not invent anything. All with what I face in my life, I tell and through television to help others. I did not know anything about the children at the time, when my son was born. Now very helpful advice from professionals: pediatricians, psychologists, a sleep. Of his stories I'll learn a lot and is being implemented. I understand that people who live somewhere far away from the center, in the villages, there is no opportunity to consult with a really good professional, to come to the class doctor. "Daddy Blog" provides such an opportunity.
Who is your audience?
Young parents in the first place, but sometimes people come up and say that our program is very interesting, although their children for 15 years. Recently, his family went to Svyatogorsk. We were approached by young men, children, adults, men and asked about blog. The audience is different.
How is your wife helps in the creation of the program, because it is also a journalist?
It helps that tells how was their day with her son what he did, how behaved and to complain about. Scene scenarios arise from life. I spend a lot of time at work for a long time do not see Max. But during the filming we give Marina (his wife) to relax. Yourself cope.
Maxim reacts to shooting?
When was the first shooting, he burst into tears - frightened bearded operator. And then I crawled around the camera, playing microphone. Of course, it was easier to shoot when he still did not go. It was possible to build a frame and immersed in it. Now it is difficult to remove in the apartment, the kid little space. Maxim hyperactive, can not do the same for more than one minute. By the way, he understands when he is told: "Look at the camera." He is used to. Ask to smile - he smiles. Son understands that it is removed. During filming, we often team otsmatrivat doubles, and I show them Maxim. He understands that here it is, but the Pope, pointing to the screen of the camera itself.
What are the funny moments happened offscreen?
My favorite moments when Max goes to sleep. He often does what he wants, not what we want. He while shooting runs, jumps, time to get tired. And when I pick him up he was already asleep. This was about three times. We transferred shooting. By the way, he still did not break anything, intact equipment.
Many of today's parents are superstitious and try not to upload photos to social networks children. And how do you feel about the fact that your child from six months saw the whole country?
I am not superstitious soon. Initially, we are also not exposed photo. And then I thought: "Why not?". He lived among the people. Like a person close - close. By the way, they say that before baptism can not show child. Here we christened the baby when he was not two months, but then started to upload photos to social networks.
How often do you get recognized on the street?
Maxim often learn than me. When his wife leaves him on the street, people say they know this boy, who, together with the Pope on "Inter" leads the program. There was a case when a woman first learned the dog, which was filmed here in the blog, and then me. I see nothing wrong in the fact that the child know and learn.
Than follow in the child's upbringing?
Their inner feelings. Through trial and error, a lot of reading. Plus I have assistants - our experts. We select the best. By their advice, I listen, but not always all can realize. Maxim is not always sleeps on schedule, and sometimes break a diet. Still, we try to comply with the rules.
What advice would you give to young fathers?
You need to help his wife. If it is relaxed and happy, it will be good to you and your child. I, however, rarely get to give Marina a clean output. But when it is possible, then we cool with Max hold time, he does not remember about his mother, he was even fine with me falling asleep, though even still breastfed. You need not fear the child. I was afraid - did not change his diapers. I did not know why he cries, did not know what to do with it. Now everything has changed. Maxim loves to swim with the Pope. To me he is interested in, as son spends more time with her mother, she bothers him. I want to say to all the fathers: "After work, hurry home. There you are waiting. "
The first season is different from the second and third will be there?
In the second season, we no longer interacted with the audience. We often committed on issues that arise in people. In the plots, new heroes - our audiences. For example, it was the release where we went to visit the Pope confinement. Basically a lot in the second season, I like it more. There are thought to continue the third season, because the demand is there. But if you still will be the third season, he must radically different from previous ones.
Are there any people, which was equal to the child's upbringing?
I can not say that I have a sample of imitation in terms of parenting. In our own experience I am trying to figure out what should be the ideal, normal father. Themselves do not consider ideal, because little time is devoted to his son. I learn from my mistakes. I believe that the education of mothers and fathers must be different. I rarely see dads that children lisp. It is right. But at the same time a child definitely need to talk about his love, and above all he must feel it. A cracker can not be, a child must feel the heat from the pope. I always say with Max adult. And he wants to be an adult. He has a lot of repeat after me, dressed like me, brushing his teeth, shoes, shoes if I wants to drink from my cup, rather than from his childhood. The boy is important that the father was with him, and not just come from work, bought yogurt and went to bed.
How parenthood changed man?
Personally, I felt the added responsibility. I'm eccentric, fun and frivolous. It is understood that the child is not interested in your problems, it all should be well. I still have the children become more annoying. Yes, the annoying kids who fall into the floor stores and shout: "Buy!". I think that to blame parents. It annoys me crying Max from harm. He is trying to manipulate, but it does not affect me. It's, you know, not even crying, and squeal. Attempts to manipulate, I try to stop, he takes offense at me. I like spending time with my son, but I would just could not sit with him in the decree, as the wife is sitting. Be with the child all day and night - hard.
Still wondering what to say Maxim, when it is already in a more conscious age, about these programs with his participation.
Photo to article: press-service channel "Inter"
