Some women involuntarily begin to behave with their man like a mommy. Perhaps it was so accepted in their family, or this is a feature of this particular woman.
But, such a relationship between spouses will not lead to anything good. Usually, in such families, close relationships disappear, and the husband and wife become just roommates.
So who is for her husband? Mom or wife.
Typical wife behavior
1. She does not regret, but supports. He does not lend his shoulder for help, but praises and does not give up. She understands that he is not a little boy to come and complain to you. He is your protector, your wall, your shoulder and you can rely on him.
2. She does not wake him up in the morning, does not collect food for him to work, does not monitor what he is wearing and does not call to find out if he ate on time, went to the toilet and changed his socks and panties. She understands that she lives with an adult who is able to resolve these issues himself.
3. Although she supports him in everything, she has her own opinion on any situation. And if she is different from the male, she will express this, and will not protect him from evil bosses and mad bosses. Not always the husband can adequately assess what is happening. The task of the wife is to direct him in the right direction, but not to say what to do, but to tell him how to do it.
Mommy's characteristic behavior
1. She is always very worried about him, calls 10 times a day and if he does not pick up the phone or God forbid the phone is turned off, drinks Corvalol and calls hospitals and morgues. When he calls back she cries hysterically into the phone and says that he will bring her to the "handle".
2. She gets up early and makes him breakfast, wakes him up and packs him to work (makes sure he dresses warmly). When he is sick, she takes care of him like a child. Sits by the bed and cannot sleep. On the one hand, this is good, but, from such care, a man may have associations with his mother, but, as we know, they do not want mothers.
3. While visiting, she does not relax, but keeps track of where he went, with whom he talks and how much he eats and drinks. These are the women who slap the hands of their alcohol-drinking spouses and do not allow them to eat what they want. An adult man does not need care, he himself understands what will make him feel bad.
Of course, there are couples who like this attitude, and they live happily for many years. But, in most cases, adult, self-sufficient men "wife-mommy" will be annoying or evoke "paternal" feelings, which does not fit in with the family life of the spouses and the love between the husband and wife.
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