Why I think Defne destroyed her marriage herself. Love versus fate

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The family idyll of Defne and Kahraman was shattered by the desire to have a child.

Kahraman was happy next to Defne, and at that time he did not care whether there was a child in their little world or not. But, Defne persuaded her husband and they decided on a desperate step - surrogate motherhood.

Of course, if Kiimen-khanum had not intervened, then Kahraman and Defne would have lived as before. But apparently it was written in heaven that a son should be born to Kahraman.

Defne, having learned that she was not the biological mother of the child that Elif was carrying, decided to get rid of him.

Why I think Defne destroyed her marriage herself. Love versus fate

She did not sit down, did not discuss this issue with her husband, but acted as she saw fit. As a result, she only lost Kahraman's trust.

Kahraman already heard his son's heartbeat and saw him on the ultrasound. How could he give it up now.

Defne did not want to raise someone else's child, but wanted their relationship with her husband to be the same. But is that possible? Kahraman will no longer be as before, he is no longer just a husband, but also a future father.

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Why I think Defne destroyed her marriage herself. Love versus fate

Defne made a huge mistake that during this period she was not next to her husband, was not happy with the first Uzi, did not worry about the well-being of the surrogate mother, and therefore their baby.

She herself gave Kahraman into the arms of the woman who carried “their” child.

Kahraman understood that their paths parted, and what was good for him, bad for Defne.

Defne had only two choices:

1. Adopt Kahraman's child and raise him as your own.

2. Get away from Kahraman, leaving him with his desires and ambitions.

Defne was looking for a middle ground, but in her search she made a lot of mistakes, for which she paid.

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