I am still far from this age, but I have one pleasant acquaintance with whom we often see each other, and she is 53 years old. Often in conversation, she shares her life experience, and gives me very useful advice. It was she who told me about some of the mistakes that many women over 50 make, and which urgently need to stop making.
So, 8 mistakes you shouldn't make when you're over 50
No need to buy things that you will never use
You know, many ladies sin with this, and even those who have not yet exchanged fifty dollars. Stop buying things for future use that can lie for years and just litter your apartment. You will never use them in the end. For example, kitchen utensils, many buy them indiscriminately. Personally, I have a toaster, which I used only on the day of purchase, and a multicooker, which has not found application in my home, and is used a maximum of 2 times a month. At the same time, both devices are in my kitchen, complementing the kitchen interior. I think we should get rid of this!
Don't pay attention to what others are saying
People are different, and they can say quite different things. And, if you have come across some evil person in your life, or just a person at the time of meeting you was not in a very good mood, then you can hear a lot of unpleasant things from such individuals. It is not at all necessary to strictly follow all the advice that others give you, and you should not be upset if someone is unhappy with you, the main thing is that you remain happy with yourself. Have you ever come under the hot hand of a completely "innocent" person? Have you ever thought about how unpleasant it was for him after you raised your voice or said something without thinking? You are not out of spite, but, so to speak, by accident. So you do not pay attention when someone is trying to hurt you or when someone is just not in the mood.
Don't wear bright makeup
In general, a woman at any age looks inappropriate and vulgar with a ton of makeup on her face. Women over 50 with a bright make-up look doubly comical. Look at yourself from the outside, you, on the contrary, make yourself ugly. Better yet, go to a professional make-up a couple of times, and you will understand how you can look attractive and pretty even without a bucket of plaster!
Don't regret the past
Many people so torment themselves with the past, remembering pleasant moments and reproaching themselves for the mistakes of youth. But this is so stupid. You must live in the here and now. It will be wiser to simply let go of your past, and only then will your life be filled with new colors and meaning!
Don't think that you won't be able to learn something new.
Many women stop keeping up with the times with age, believing that they are already old in order to learn foreign languages, ride a horse, jump with a parachute. But a person must constantly develop, especially since the older we get, the worse our brain works. We must always develop, try something new, learn something new. You will succeed, the main thing is just to want!
Stop resenting your loved ones
Do not be offended by your children, because they rarely come and call you. Many ladies overextend that they stop picking up the phone and turn on the silence for many days. And this is the biggest nonsense to show your pride. Life is too short to waste on such nonsense.
Do not spare money for new things for yourself
It is a mistake to believe that a woman over 50 no longer needs new clothes, and she should not look fashionable and stylish. Buying new things always cheers you up, do not save on yourself, indulge more often!
Don't give all of yourself to your loved ones
To live for the sake of a husband, for the sake of children, for the sake of grandchildren is wrong. It's good, of course, that you love them, help them, but you yourself should be the most important person in your life! There is no need to waste great strength and health on loved ones, take care of yourself!
If you get rid of these mistakes, you will greatly simplify your life, and you can become a happy woman! And the choice is only yours!
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