it can be quite difficult to achieve in a pair. For example, women say one thing, but mean something completely different. Does it happen with men? It turns out that men also excelled in this. John Gray has an entertaining book "Men from Mars, Women from Venus", experts advise to reread it from time to time so that the relationship of the beloved is strong.
The author indicates some phrases of men, which women understand a little differently. I think this will be useful to you too, because, understanding your man correctly, you can hope for a strong and long-term union with him!
Phrases pronounced by a man that women misunderstand!
"I am fine"
The man says to the woman: "Everything is fine with me, I will perfectly cope with all the problems myself." And this means that he does not need your help, and if he suddenly needs it, he will definitely tell you about it. And this is what the woman hears: “I don’t care about this problem, even if it upset you, I don’t care about it either.”
"Everything is good"
What a woman should hear: "I'm fine, I can handle a bad mood just fine." What the woman hears: "I'm fine, if you don't pester me and nag, then I will solve everything quickly."
"All right"
What does the man really say: “Stop nagging me and reminding me of it, I know that there is a problem, but I can solve everything myself, I just don’t need to prompt me and interfere with thinking about everything. Better pretend that everything is in order, and I myself will come up with the right solution. " And the woman hears: "Now everything is fine, but this is your fault, and next time I will not forgive you for this!" or “Behave as you like towards me, and I will behave the same way towards you. And you shouldn't change anything. " Like this!
"Nothing special"
Again, women misinterpret this answer a little. They hear: "Again you are blowing the elephant out of a fly, stop twitching in vain, you are wasting time on useless alarms." What does the man really say: “Nothing special happened, so I can handle everything myself, and I’ll decide everything. There is no need to talk about this problem anymore, because its presence is unpleasant to me. I myself will solve everything, and I myself am responsible for solving this problem. "
"In principle, this is a trifle"
The woman hears: “This is all complete nonsense, why are you creating a problem out of this? I don't care, I won't do anything! " This is probably why the lady begins to prove to the man that this is not a trifle, but a real problem! And what does a man really say: "I will definitely solve this problem, it is absolutely not difficult for me!"
"Nothing, nothing"
How can these words be translated? Usually: "I'm fine, nothing happened that would make me worry, so you shouldn't ask so many questions on this topic!" And for some reason the woman hears: “I myself do not understand what worries me. It would be nice if you could help me figure it out. " And in the end, the woman climbs with questions, advice, moralizing, and the poor man just wants to be left alone.
Perhaps it is worth using a specific translator of male phrases by John Gray to make it easier to understand your man! It turns out that sometimes the words that our partner says have the opposite meaning for us!
Mutual understanding and love for you!
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