For some reason, despite the fact that many couples claim that they have strong feelings, mutual understanding and respect between them, they part because of the sheer little things happening in their lives. Your relationship is bound to be long and strong if you can handle these things.
Real feelings and healthy strong relationships can always overcome:
Parting
A lot can happen in life. For example, one of the lovers will have to go to school for education or on a business trip. There may be problems with relatives, or there may be a sudden vacation, which will have to be spent without your soul mate. So, if your relationship is healthy, you will endure separation and separation. And in general, both of you should be able to spend time without each other, while not finding a replacement for a partner and not suffering. Separation can last a couple of days, a week, a month, and maybe even longer. But one cannot be so codependent that the mere thought of parting for a while seems terrible. You have to be independent in order to spend time apart.
Lack of intimacy
Relationships should in no way deteriorate if for some reason there is no sex in them. Maybe one of the partners is away, got sick, or maybe just not in the mood. It is only on the Internet that you can find an article from a woman who has lived through life or from a man obsessed with sex with the statement that if you do not give your partner sex, he will find it on the side. In a healthy relationship, this definitely won't happen. Remember, you are more than just bodies! You can safely enjoy each other's company without sex!
Partner's past
Before you met each other, you had your own life. Perhaps she was not very good, there was a different relationship, you made mistakes for which you may be ashamed. But your partner should be equal to all this. He should not remind you of your mistakes, be jealous of you towards your ex. You are together now, and the past should not bother you. Moreover, you should not keep in your head such thoughts about your partner's past. Do not remember and do not be offended by your soul mate for what he did and how he lived before meeting you!
Minor daily fights
A healthy relationship is not when there is no dirty linen in a couple at all, it is when both of you can find a compromise, try to understand your partner and his point of view. Whatever your quarrel, always maintain respect for each other, and think about your partner's feelings first.
Jealousy
If you have jealousy of someone in your head, you should definitely discuss it. You should learn to trust each other. In general, jealousy is considered not an indicator of love, but an indicator of possessiveness. You both can have childhood friends, classmates, and coworkers of the opposite sex! Try to calmly react, not be jealous, this is stupid!
Family dramas
It's about your families, because your relatives may have problems. If you are tolerant of all this, then this is very good. Support each other no matter what the situation may be.
Personal moments
In a healthy relationship, partners do not run away from each other, if one of them has grief, depression, poor health, or problems. They always support each other, and always stay close!
Can your relationship handle this?
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