It happens that people start to worry about every little thing in a relationship. And there are those who do not even think that a couple of problems can come. Everything seems to be fine, conflicts happen to everyone, and there is nothing to worry about. However, experts say that there are some things that encourage us to start worrying about our relationship!
It's time for you to start worrying about the relationship if ...
Everything about him began to annoy you
It infuriates you how he speaks, what he says, how he eats, how he sleeps, how he sighs, how he breathes! This is a very bad sign. Chances are, you have relationship problems. And you have not solved these very problems, so everything turns into your irritability. And it will only get worse over time if you don't begin to carefully articulate your feelings and thoughts!
You don't have the same goals with your partner.
Well, anything can happen. Each of us has our own ideas about happiness, family, and the future. But you need to be able to find compromises. And this does not mean that you have to give up what is really important to you. The main thing is to be able to find the middle ground. For example, you wanted a lot of children, but your partner doesn't want them at all. And here, either you find a middle ground, a compromise, a solution that suits you two, or you diverge. You don't fit together if your goals don't match at all.
You are not interested in sleeping with him
You no longer have common interests in bed. You become bored, and you constantly think that you do not want to sleep with your partner, you even began to shudder from his every touch. This is a very bad sign.
You and your partner have no emotional closeness.
You don't want to share your feelings and thoughts with each other, you don't want to hear your partner's advice, you don't care. You don't rush home with a desire to share interesting information sooner. You just don't feel close, emotionally connected. If you do not want to discuss something important and do not want to trust, this is very bad.
There is no trust in your relationship.
There are many reasons, but if there is no trust in a relationship, then there is no point in expecting them to be long-lasting and happy. Perhaps you caught him lying, cheating, and now you cannot believe him. You constantly doubt that he is telling you the truth. If you don't work on this, then soon everything will definitely end.
You often quarrel about the same topic.
It is difficult for you to come to a decision in controversial moments. Moreover, your quarrel can be repeated regularly because of some little thing. And absolutely always with you it all comes down to some unsolved problem.
You started introducing yourself to someone else
This is not about what your dreams are about Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp. You started fantasizing about a specific person to whom you became emotionally attached.
You don't see a future with him
You stopped thinking about a joint future. You, both as individuals and as a couple, do not develop, you stand and stagnate in one place. You have changed your mind about marrying him, having children from him.
Your emotional health began to suffer
You used to be happy and cheerful, but now you are in constant depression. No prospect in a relationship, constant scandals, your incomprehensible status - all of this negatively affected your emotional health.
You started thinking about breaking up with him
More and more often you began to think about breaking up with him. Perhaps you have been thinking about this for a long time, but something constantly stopped you. No, this is not because you doubted your decision, but simply because you were not sure that you could or want to be alone.
Don't stay in a relationship where you don't feel happy!
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