While we women are looking for the next flaws of appearance in the reflection of the mirror, men do not get tired of admiring themselves. Moreover, this is regardless of their external data. What is the secret of their 100% self-confidence?
Learning from men, raising our self-esteem
Narcissism
Here is a woman, approaching the mirror, perhaps smiling at the reflection, and then noticing gray hair or a wrinkle near her eyes, then the hairstyle is not so “laid down”, then the jeans are not on the figure. Yes, we go to the mirror for practical purposes, to fix makeup or hair, to match the color of the clothes or the clothes themselves. And now, finding some small defects, and looking at ourselves even more, we find a lot of them! Men look in the mirror just to admire themselves. Of course, they can sometimes look to see if they shaved their beard smoothly, and if there is still foam on their face. But in this case, they remain satisfied with themselves.
Reducing disadvantages
Men do not regard defects in their appearance as flaws, they accept them as features that distinguish them from others. A small tummy, gray hair, a scar - this is an individuality! Well, their belly has grown, it doesn't matter, it didn't happen overnight, well, just think the sweater is old, but it's comfortable and warm. And we, women, sometimes write down things that are not even worth worrying about as shortcomings! Small breasts? Thin hair? Crook in the nose? Scars? All this makes us nervous! But some men, on the other hand, find it sexy in women!
No high expectations
A woman sits and puts on makeup before "going out", puts on a beautiful dress, goes to the mirror and: "Oh, God, there is not Angelina Jolie in the reflection!" Everything, the whole marafet down the drain, and I don't even want to go anywhere. Many men are of the opinion that they should be "a little more handsome than a monkey." I don't remember where this phrase comes from, but it has become so ingrained in men's minds that it really only works for their benefit! They are confident, period! And they know that no one will admire their appearance, and they do not look chic handsome in the mirror at all. So, sometimes, in order to escape from your complexes, you just need to lower the bar of your own expectations, and allow yourself to be not so ideal.
Eye training
Men have a very accurate eye, and this is the fault of nature! And it is also her fault that women are too weird in guessing their proportions. Now I will explain, for example, women with size 44, for some reason take a size 46 in the store, on the contrary, “big” women are trying to fit into something tight, a couple of sizes smaller. And men know perfectly well how much volume they occupy in space!
The other half is the best mirror
For men, in principle, it does not matter how they are perceived and what others think of them, the main thing is that they are liked by their soul mates. They need to be appreciated by their beloved woman. If a husband / boyfriend comes up to us in a stretched sweater, and in order not to offend him, we say that he looks good, that's it! This is enough for him to gain confidence in himself! It is important for us, women, to please everyone around us - both men and women, and girlfriends, and sellers, and colleagues. And this is a natural desire! In addition, very often men are stingy with compliments to their beloved, and they really want to confirm their superiority!
What do you think, dear women? Isn't it time for us to learn something from our dear and beloved men in order to increase our self-esteem?
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