Definitely, any woman wants to be sure that a man is faithful to her, that he does not look at other ladies, and even more so, does not allow himself an affair on the side. Of course, being overly suspicious, checking phone calls, and sniffing at your lover's clothes is a silly extreme. By such behavior, a woman, on the contrary, turns her man away from herself. There is another option to understand whether a man is cheating on you or not.
The fact is that, according to psychologists, all men who “went to the left” utter similar phrases. They want to be in time on "two fronts" at once, they plan to leave their wife / beloved girl nearby and have the opportunity to have connections on the side. Otherwise, they would have immediately left the other half. So, instead of leaving and in order to leave everything as it is, they begin to drown in lies.
And here are the most common phrases a cheater can utter!
"You are cheating on me?"
Yes, no matter how strange it may sound, you did not even have a thought that your faithful had a connection on the side, when he suddenly starts asking you strange questions. He doesn't seem to believe you, is jealous, etc. But in fact, he is trying to disguise his adventures in this way. You won't even think that he is cheating on you, but instead you will prove to him that you love him and are faithful to him! The tricky one however ...
"You are not who you seemed before"
Another way to "translate the arrows". With such a phrase, a man is trying to throw the blame on you for his betrayal. He, then, cheated, and you are to blame for this, because you, you see, are not who you pretended to be! Now you will definitely start to change, and again you will not pay attention to the late comebacks of the man, SMS on his phone and in general his strange behavior.
"I will wash everything myself"
Oh, how cute, how caring, how economic! Open your eyes! He may be trying to wash off the lipstick from his shirt or some other characteristic "spots of love"! If his housekeeping is not like his usual behavior, then it is worth considering!
"I'll be back from work late"
Of course, such a phrase is quite acceptable if the man is your true workaholic, and is constantly delayed. In order to earn an extra penny for the family. But, if this is something new, then it is quite possible that your husband is "secretly visiting his mistress"!
"Your mistrust destroys our relationship!"
If you are not an insanely suspicious young lady, but decided to ask yourself quite adequate questions, then such an intonation of your partner should be incomprehensible to you.
"You have misunderstood it!"
Long hair on a jacket, a hidden phone, nighttime telephone conversations somewhere on the balcony, strange behavior - is there something wrong? Of course, your faithful will try to confuse you, and will begin to assure you that everything only seems to you!
"We're just friends"
In general, in principle, I do not believe in true friendship between a man and a woman, one of these two definitely has far from friendly ones in the background. If your man assures that the unknown who constantly calls him is just a friend, let him prove it.
"We're just texting"
What? Any faithful man will not allow himself any strange correspondence! Think about it, this could all end too badly!
But what men usually say when infidelity finally came to light
"I still love you"
If I loved, I would never change!
"I didn't mean to hurt you"
Yes, he just wanted to "play pranks" on the side, but he did not think that it would be so painful for you.
"I do not want to lose you"
I see this phrase like this - "I want to sit on two chairs at the same time!"
"She is an empty place for me"
A common phrase, like this affair does not mean anything to him, it is physiology, momentary weakness. Yes, what arrogant men ...
"I was drunk and did not understand anything"
Alcohol is an aggravating circumstance in court when sentencing! So, I think that cheating in alcoholic intoxication is all the same betrayal!
"This won't pretend anymore!"
Yeah of course! He tried it once, he was forgiven, which means that he will be sure that he will be forgiven for the second and third time. So, you shouldn't believe it!
"You and I haven't had sex for a long time"
And again the man is trying to shift everything onto your fragile shoulders.
"I have nothing to do with it, it's all her!"
Girls, a man is not a ram to be taken away from the family. So, both are guilty of treason. By the way, sometimes men have mistresses who are not informed that they are married. Now I am not making excuses for mistresses, but there are such cases.
"I will change, I promise!"
Will not change, but will change, and more than once!
Girls, respect yourself! And do not forgive men for treason! Don't let your feet get dry! Although they say that a wise woman will forgive something in the name of there, but I believe that, on the contrary, a very stupid lady will do this! There is no need to keep a man for the sake of family, children, for the sake of just having a man nearby! You deserve more!
In no case now do I want to humiliate men and praise women, among the fairer sex there are those who are also weak to hikes "to the left."
Take care of your love!
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