Probably due to the fact that we all want to be loved and the only ones, we are so carried away by our feelings that we drive into our heads that now our soul mate is next to us. And we are fighting for our love, which is too hard for us. At the same time, when everything happens easily and smoothly in our relationship, we immediately think that something is wrong here. I dare to dissuade you, if you think so, then this is wrong!
Everyone has their own ideas about love and relationships. We all roughly imagine who the partner will be like, how events will develop, what the first date / kiss / declaration of love will be like. And sometimes, in reality, a person manages to meet his soul mate, moreover by chance, and not at all where he expected. It seems that this particular person is ideal, you begin to achieve him, and do everything so that he was next to you. And so, the relationship began, everything is like in a fairy tale, and this lasts a month, two, three. And then things go awry.
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If at the beginning of a relationship communication seemed easy and natural, now everything seems very complicated. Everything just loses its luster, problems appear one after another. And many do not stand up to troubles and difficulties, but do not get tired of "fighting" in the name of love. This is because to some people love seems to be something magical, and everything else is deception.
People do not immediately go to parting, but try their best to keep love. And we are sure that it is true love that needs to be achieved, to fight for it. And, if everything is easy and simple, then something is definitely going wrong. After all, others have so, a lot of trouble, and together they cling to the last hanging hooks, just not to break. But why for the sake of love constantly suffer and cry? Why spend a huge amount of time to become happy and loved again for your significant other?
I think this is wrong. Why is there an opinion that everything great requires human suffering? Yes, love requires partner efforts, forgiving and patience, but all of this should be without prejudice. If you have to do something overwhelming just to keep your love alive, I think this is complete nonsense! And I am sure that sooner or later such a relationship is doomed to failure!
Relationships should be easy! If something went wrong, it means that one of you is an unstable person, and is not ready for a relationship. If something is wrong, then one of the partners has unrealistic expectations about what the other should give him every day. But all this does not last forever, you should not chase the person with whom you feel bad. You should be close to someone who makes you a happy person, and with whom it is easy in all respects, despite the occasional difficult times. Believe me, a person who is happy only when you do something for him will not support you if you lose strength and opportunities for accomplishment!
Don't chase the ideal. A soul mate is when from the first acquaintance and date with a person it is easy and good. And if friction arises almost immediately, it's not even worth continuing the relationship further.
The person who really suits you is most likely hiding under the guise of who you work with every day, who you are long time was considered an ordinary friend, who was with you both in good moments of life and in bad times, who believes in you, supports, with whom it is simple and easy. So you just have to look around and not puff up to become a happy person!
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