We are all different. Someone lives and enjoys life, some have black and white stripes constantly changing in life, and someone, despite being surrounded by family and friends, feels too lonely. If the latter is about you, then you've come to the right place. There are such deep personalities who even greatly frighten those around them. You may be a wonderful person, but ...
In fact, many people say they like deep and complex personalities. But, as it turns out, these are just words, theory, but in practice it is quite difficult to communicate with such personalities. They scare others off because the depth of their thoughts and feelings is so intense and versatile, which makes it really difficult to communicate with them.
Here are the signs that you are a deeply complex person.
1. You ask too many questions
You are a deep personality, and such people constantly want to understand everything. Therefore, you have a habit of asking as many questions as possible, even where, it would seem, everything is already clear. You will torment the interlocutor with questions until you get to the bottom of the truth or you can not understand the thoughts and feelings of the person.
And you really really want to know more about the person, because you communicate with him and plan to maintain a good relationship. Here are just a few questions, it may not be time yet. And you are rushing things.
2. You are too honest (sometimes to the point of cruelty)
Honesty is very important to people as deep as you are. For you, this is one of the most important positive personality traits. Unfortunately, not everyone likes it when honesty hurts, because the truth can be cruel.
3. You don't like chatting about empty and irrelevant
You definitely want to get to the heart of the matter. Some people respect you for this, others, on the contrary, prefer to avoid.
4. You know perfectly well what you want
Thanks to this, you are able to achieve your goals much faster than others, leaving your competitors behind. You always clearly articulate your desires, which allows you not to beat around the bush. Sometimes people around it are simply overwhelming!
5. You strive for a serious relationship
Any relationship is very dear to you, you value every person with whom fate tied you. You know how to give, but you expect others to respond. It seems to you that everyone around you is as deep as you are. But this is completely wrong, your unjustified expectations can become the cause of your disappointment.
6. You are not afraid to get close to people
Due to the fact that you consider all people around you to be good, kind and deep personalities, you trust them without hesitation. Therefore, you are not afraid to tell others about your life, and even such secrets that it is better to keep silent. You value your friends, your family, and even simple acquaintances. You are open and sincere with everyone.
7. You see right through people
It is very difficult for people to lie to you, because you seem to see right through people. It is immediately clear to you if the person is lying to you. Therefore, many try to keep their distance from you, because sometimes you want to introduce colors into the story being told, adding something from yourself.
8. You value people who are consistent in their thoughts and actions.
You like consistency in everything. Therefore, you want that if a person promised you something, he will certainly do it.
9. You take everything from life
Not everyone succeeds in this, and it is quite difficult for many to understand. You prefer to live to the maximum!
10. You will not waste time and energy on a person who does not understand you.
Of course, you love people, and you enjoy communicating with them, trusting them, being honest with them. But, if those around you do not understand, you yourself will become your only friend. You won't waste your time trying to prove something to someone, but you can give the person a second chance, which will be their last.
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