Many modern women postpone motherhood for fear of losing yourself after birth, become less successful and sold. They are afraid that they can not achieve those results, and the heights of being a mother.
Some of these concerns are fully justified, so do not be illusions and hope birth of a child not have any impact on your life. The child divides life into "before" and "after", but not always "after" mean worse, often quite the opposite. What are the fundamental changes occur in a woman's life with the advent of the baby?
Changing priorities
The change of priorities after the birth / istockphoto.com
After the appearance of the baby you have become a completely different person, radically changing lifestyle, area of interest and engagement, thinking. If, before the baby is born you might worry about career issues, arrangement of his life and leisure, then the advent of the crumbs are all either fades into the background, or require skills that will help all unite. Living with babies - it's a completely different world compared to that which was before pregnancy. Do not be surprised if much will change your circle of communication, and it would seem best friends or friends, just fall out of your life because of the lack of common interests.
emotional vulnerability
With the advent of the child your life is not yours, at least its emotional component. Compared with fear for the child, eclipsed all the other fears and feelings that you have ever experienced. The woman, who has a childBecomes more emotional, vulnerable, sensitive, it is less stress, at least in the first years after the birth.
In place of the fear of insufficient earnings, or the beauty of competence comes fear of being a bad mother, the inability to provide enough well and raise a child.
Changing interests
As my interest after birth / istockphoto.com
Do not worry if you suddenly find the urge to write children's books, or any other creative activity. Your mindset is changing dramatically, which is why about 70% of women change their sphere of activity after the decree and will not be returned to his former job.
Children help open up new opportunities, new interests and its own unexplored potential.
Everything happens because children can help you discover new opportunities, new interests and its own unexplored potential. They help you become free again look at the world through the eyes of children, sincere and direct. Time management
No one will teach rationally spend your time is better than a small child in her arms. Mom is able to find in a day of 25 hours and have time to literally everything, it does not come immediately, but the experience of motherhood, this skill only improved.
Changes in Physiology
Pregnancy does not go unnoticed even at the physiological level. Thus, for example, women who were pregnant sons, present in the organism Y-chromosome. This is due to the fact that fetal cells are distributed throughout the body of the mother, in medicine it is called - "microchimerism".
Scientists have found that after birth in all mammals undergoing fundamental changes, the structure can be changed as a consequence of exposure to the hormones of pregnancy and lactation brain.
Whatever the changes associated with the emergence of the child, it is unlikely any woman would agree to change those feelings, emotions and his new "change" life on the former.
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