Unfortunately, in our time we rarely talk about decency. It is very unpleasant to realize that people in whom it is inherent can be found less and less. You can argue for a long time on the topics: "why is this happening" and "how society affects it." But the fact remains that there are few such people.
What traits are inherent in a decent person?
He is respectful of others' time
Firstly, a decent person values his time and does not waste it on any nonsense. And, secondly, he is respectful of the time of others. He will not keep you waiting, if an appointment is made, he knows that people may have things to do, and will not delay them. If you give him your time, he will be grateful, and he will definitely tell you about it.
He will not take all the credit for himself
A decent person will not take credit for what he has not done, even if it may have a beneficial effect on his career. Instead, he is bound to admire the success of others. If you help him in some business, he will certainly inform everyone about it so that your merits are also appreciated.
He is honest
For a decent person, honesty is the credo of life. He does not consider this to be something special, but rather treats honesty as natural and self-evident. He will not lie, dissemble, slander someone. A decent person, open and sincere!
He will not use someone for his own purposes
Even if he knows that he can get huge benefits, he still will never use people for his own purposes. He can help, suggest something, but he will definitely not use anyone!
He will not prove his case
A decent person talks to everyone kindly and politely, he respects people. And no one will be able to drag him into a meaningless argument. He will not be hoarse to prove his innocence, even if he knows that he is right.
He doesn't judge or label anyone.
A decent person respects people and tries to discern something good in everyone. But, if someone begins to use his kindness out of self-interest, he simply stops all communication with him.
He will always help someone who needs it.
Sometimes a decent person doesn't even need to listen to someone to find out the reason for their bad mood. He has an excellently developed intuition, and this allows him to feel good people and their experiences. He will always help if necessary.
He trusts people
A decent person believes people, but only until they begin to lie to him. He hates lies, and tries not to communicate with those who try to play around and deceive.
He always admits his guilt
We are all wrong, and sometimes it is quite difficult to take and admit that we are wrong. But a decent person will always do this, and then apologize, and will no longer do this.
He is humble
A decent person never shouts about his successes and merits, he prefers to remain silent about it. Even if he helps people, benefits, it seems so natural to him that he does not talk about it.
He always does good deeds
It is very important for a decent person to help others by doing good deeds, this brings a certain meaning to his life.
He likes to please people
A decent person is not capable of evil, he is not hot-tempered, not impulsive. He is calm, balanced, reserved, and he so loves to do good deeds!
What do you think, and what other qualities are inherent in decent people?
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