Eh, women. How wrong you are sometimes in choosing a life partner. After all, a person who has worked all his life and was affectionate with you cannot suddenly turn into a tyrant and lazy after the registry office. Well, I at least have a hard time believing it. Sometimes women close their eyes to seemingly insignificant shortcomings of partners, and then disentangle them all their lives. And it turns out that their family life is like a suitcase - it's hard to carry, and it's a pity to throw it away. It's scary to give up everything and start life anew, but it's also scary to be in the same apartment, I'm sorry, it's not sugar with an idiot either. Take your time with your choice! Weigh the pros and cons before going down the aisle. You, in the end, do not choose a blouse for yourself, which in case of something you can then throw out.
If a man gives you these promises, then feel free to marry him!
I will work
It would seem, well, what a promise is that. Every person now has to work, because his material support depends on it. However, there are some individuals who simply powder the brains of the ladies, claiming that they are still looking for a better job for themselves, that they have not found their own. vocations that there are no places yet, etc. If a man, even in moments of unemployment, is looking for ways to make money, this is simply an excellent quality for him.
Yes, maybe now someone will say again: “women only need money,” but I still insist that a man should work as a full-fledged member of society! He should be interested in how to feed his family and how to build a future.
I will be faithful to you
Now many men will say: "we are all polygamous" or "everything happens in life." And some women who have already been cheated on, and they forgiven: "Well, he stumbled, he will no longer be", "I am wise, I forgave." Do you seriously think so? Under no circumstances should a person cheat on his soul mate! And this applies not only to men, but also to women. And here I don't want to add anything else!
I will not become addicted to something bad
It is important here that a man does not just promise, but has a strong position. Alcohol, drugs, games, social networks - all this develops into addiction, bad addiction, which is then very difficult to get rid of. A good man will always control himself!
I will always be responsible for my children
And now we are talking at the beginning of those men who, after a divorce, abandon not only their wives, but also their children. How many men are there in the country who are hiding from the bailiffs, or sending their children 2-3 thousand rubles each, so that there is a tick, and not imprisoned. How many women beat thresholds to achieve justice! Having divorced mom, dad should still be dad!
But even in marriage, a man should be responsible for his child, help his wife in bathing the baby, feeding, changing the diaper, in general in education, etc. A good man, along with his wife, takes part in the life of his children.
I will always show my love
A man should show his soul mate as often as possible that he loves her. Care, affection, romance, words, deeds!
I will always protect my family
A woman who marries a man should be sure that he will always stand up for their family. He will be just a defender, he will solve not only his own problems, but also the problems of his wife and children. It is not for nothing that we say married, i.e. for my husband!
I am responsible for my woman's family
Nobody forces a man to provide for the entire family of his beloved woman. But he must find ways to get along with her family, find common ground, communicate, even if he has very little in common with them.
I will admit my mistakes
We all make mistakes, and it's important to admit them, correct them and not make them again. It is from mistakes that we learn to be better!
I will get better
A man who does not sit still, but develops, changes, learns, learns something new, deserves a round of applause!
I will always rise if I fall
As well as from mistakes, from falls in life, too, none of us is immune. A good man will not get depressed if life hit him painfully, falling, he will get up, dust himself off and move on!
Girls, if a man gives you these promises, then don't even think! Marry this amazing man! This is a good man!
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