Someone simply does not understand that the relationship has soured, and it is better to end it. And someone has all the signs on his face, and the person perfectly understands that all this will not lead to good, but still endures and does not leave. Because it is very difficult to understand whether everything will get better or, on the contrary, will become even worse. It is especially difficult when a person has a very strong affection for a partner, well, or sincere love.
I recommend that you pay attention to these signs. If they are present in your relationship, then it's time for you to run from them.
Signs that your relationship is doomed
1. You don't know if your relationship is normal or not.
Or, in other words, your relationship, as it turned out now, does not coincide with your views and values. If you can't even tell if your partner is treating you well or if you don't understand if it's okay how he refers to you, which means that he most likely does not share your views on life and he has completely different values. Probably, he has a different concept of love and completely different expectations from the relationship.
Don't believe what they say: "opposites attract." When there are small differences between you, in principle, you can still come to terms with them. But when these differences are fundamental, they will bring a lot more pain than happiness.
And you should not look for an answer from friends or on the Internet to the question: is your relationship normal. If you have any doubts crept in, and you have to change yourself for the sake of a man, while you don't like it, then it's time to stop, because this is not normal! It's time to realize that you and your partner are incompatible.
2. You feel constant anxiety around your partner
Your relationship does not meet your needs at all, and even brings back old problems. It is your anxiety that informs you that you have needs, and they never come true. Most likely, you expected a little differently from your relationship, and hoped for something different. You do not have stability in your relationship, a sense of security, peace. If you ignore these feelings of yours, then simply let your partner know that this is normal.
Also, your perennial anxiety may indicate emotional abuse by a man.
3. You have changed a lot, stopped being yourself
Along with anxiety, the emergence of other habits, emptiness, you completely ceased to be yourself. You are not like yourself. It's just that you are very attached to your partner, and do not want to admit that your relationship is toxic. Here we can talk about a sign not only that you are in the wrong relationship, but also that there is violence in them. You met a person, he somehow quickly charmed you, you fell in love, believed him, thought that he was your destiny. And then unpleasant events began, and you endure them, justifying your partner, and convincing yourself that you need him.
You suppress all your true feelings and thoughts so that everything is good, but it will not be good anymore. You have ceased to be yourself, which means that you are in the wrong relationship.
4. You are afraid to tell your loved ones about what is happening in your relationship because you think they will not understand you.
This means your partner is a very skilled manipulator. He was able to instill in you that everyone around you is against your relationship, everyone envies you and desires evil, because you are truly happy. And you really think so, and then suddenly you realize that the problems are coming back again. And this happens all the time, the feeling that you are rolling on a swing... But your loved ones share your values and outlook on life, and why then do they not understand what is happening with you? You are muffling your inner voice that tells you to run, you have stopped distinguishing between good and bad.
In general, you are ashamed to talk to strangers about your problems, and you are afraid that your loved ones will definitely find good reasons why you should leave the relationship.
Love and value yourself first of all!
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