Of course, every woman wants to become the best wife for her man. We build relationships for a single day, we want to live a whole life with a person, in love and joy, in sorrow and sorrow. But sometimes it doesn't work out. Or maybe we women are doing something wrong ourselves? Of course, building relationships concerns both partners, and you need to try, both the woman and the man. But today I want to talk specifically about the beautiful half of humanity. So, who exactly are men looking for in their second half?
Smart wife rules
Daily kisses
When a couple has already lived together for a long time, tenderness and affection somehow by themselves fade into the background. Remember that you need to kiss your spouse every day, and preferably several times a day. It is important! And don't forget to remind him of your feelings in the same way.
No criticism during an argument
It is necessary to quarrel with the mind, somewhere to remain silent, and somewhere to show... affection! Yes, you heard right! Instead of pretensions, say something like: "Darling, you behave in such a way that it seems to me that you do not value me." Do not be aggressive, it is better to convey what you need in a calm tone.
The past is in the past
The past cannot be changed, so if you want to be with your loved one, you have to accept it. It doesn't matter who your husband was before, and what mistakes he made, you chose him because you love, so don't remind him of his past.
Cooking delicious food
Yes, in the modern world it is very difficult to have time to cook delicious meals every day, but at least occasionally try to please your loved one with something interesting. This will show your partner that you care and care.
Quarrels in front of others are taboo
Never argue with your husband in front of third parties. Your affairs are only your personal, and you do not need to take your problems outside the family, your disagreements do not concern anyone.
The wife is the keeper of the hearth
No matter how busy you are at work or with children, try to keep your home clean and comfortable. A man wants to return to where he smells delicious, where he can take a break from work, relax.
Girlfriends are not counselors
You don't need to take your problems outside the family. Girlfriends are not your advisers. As a last resort, if you have any questions and need advice, contact your mother, sister, mother-in-law. But girlfriends, especially if they are divorced or single, can advise you in general complete nonsense.
No discussion behind your back
Of course, you can praise your husband in front of others, but never judge him behind his back. This is ugly, would it be unpleasant for you if your husband did this? You must become faithful, understanding and reliable for your spouse in every way.
No complaints about children
Of course, if your kids are misbehaving, you should discuss this with your husband. But he should not constantly hear only criticism of children about them. Don't dwell on their bad behavior.
Always be feminine
Can't stay feminine? Then try reading books on this topic, take courses on the Internet.
Romance in a relationship
Surprise your partner with gifts, delicious dinners, you can send him intimate photos, if this is acceptable in your relationship. Your relationship will be stronger if romance is present.
Condemning his family is taboo
Even if his relatives are "evil" for you, always speak of them with respect. Be on his side, but also be careful with judgments and expressions. Be that as it may, this is his family, and he will always love her, no matter what!
Help in difficult situations
We all have difficult situations in life, and you must become a reliable shoulder for your man, who is always there. Sometimes this is more important than a thousand words.
Respect for personal space
A man should have personal space. It is clear that when he is at work from morning till night, and on his day off wants to go fishing, meet a friend, etc., it becomes a little offensive. But you must learn to spend time without your significant other. Find yourself an interesting activity, and don't whine that your husband doesn't care about you.
Appearance at height
Remember that a man loves with his eyes! Therefore, take care of yourself constantly and develop. You should be nice to look at!
The husband is in charge in the relationship
After all, a man is the head of the family, so give him the reins.
These are the simple rules, but if you follow them, you can find harmony and happiness in a relationship for many years!
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